Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: My marriage got fixed with a very decent girl who follows Islam precisely. However, now my parents are disrespecting and insulting her family and think that we are superior to them (girl’s family) and now due to this her family does not want her to marry me because of my parents. But we both like each other and want to get married. what should I do in this situation

28 Feb

ANSWER: You can’t marry her without the consent of her father! Try to convince your parents and if they are adamant and won’t budge then you can go ahead and get married to her if you are financially independent and can open up a house for her even without their approval as a man doesn’t […]

QUESTION: I don’t know what to do ,I’m married .. But my parents are asking me to study further and do job and sling me to be financially independent .. on other side my in-laws doesn’t like me studying.. even I’m not interested in further studies.. I’m in such a dilemma.. what should I do … How can I convince my parents??

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

25 Feb

ANSWER: Simply ignore their demands without being disrespectful. Your parents and your in laws have nothing to do with your life. This is between you and your husband. Everyone else must mind their own business and stay out of your life.

QUESTION: Sheikh, is it permissible to not get married for a young girl who fears child birth pain and operations

Fiqh of Marriage

25 Feb

ANSWER: This fear is baseless and satan is messing up with her head Millions and millions of women have been giving birth since Hawwa (eve) without any problem. Nevertheless, this is your choice and preference. So many women discovered this the hard way after it was too late that being alone without a husband or […]

QUESTION: I m going to marry إن شاءالله, but in walimah generally girl and boys are present and people come and see them,in separate place but I fear that some women might take pics of my future wife despite warning, can I give walimah by breaking custom that boy and girl should be present on walimah day?Advise me plzz

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

23 Feb

ANSWER: It’s not permissible at all to have mixed gatherings You must make an arrangement to take the phones from all females at the ladies entrance and give them tokens so that they would recollect their phones while going back.

QUESTION: Can my husband not allow me all the time to even step out of home.i feel suffocated to be at home all the time.not even my side of family functions or any thing. Can i go from out without his permission when I’m at my parents house

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Feb

ANSWER: You must not leave the house without his permission However if he is that controlling and preventing you from your basic human rights, you shouldn’t be in such a marriage as it would only deteriorate more and more You should have your father and siblings talk to him and if he doesn’t change, you […]

QUESTION: Which is more rewarding and which must come first, cooking for your husband or praying dhuha?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

11 Feb

ANSWER: Cooking for your husband.

QUESTION: I spend on my husband because he hasn’t had a proper job for 3 years, we got married recently thinking he had got a pay raise but unfortunately his job isn’t paying. He isn’t looking for jobs and also his mother wants us to send money to her frequently so she can pay for her daughters education and go to hotels and pay for her large apartment. Do we have to send to his family when he owes me a lot

Fiqh of Marriage

09 Feb

ANSWER: You are not obliged to spend a penny on him, the house or anything at all. Let him man up or kick him out of the house until he is able to pay bills and provide for you. Do not give him any cash in his hand nor send mother anything unless you are […]

QUESTION: If my wife is sick and I asked her to have intimacy but she refused due to her sickness and pain Is she sinful and cursed for rejecting the relation ship

Fiqh of Marriage

08 Feb

ANSWER: Of course not! Allah doesn’t burden a soul beyond what it can bear.

QUESTION: I am a girl 28 years old and now my parents wants me to get married and I also said them okay but as soon the things got final I dont wanna marry and I am under extreme pressure now. I have been praying 5 times and tahajud too and went to umrah as well and discuss this to Allah as well but I feel not ready at all. I just wanna ask you am I sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage

07 Feb

ANSWER: I don’t know! When you are 28 years old, what are you waiting for? Every year you delay your marriage, you will be proposed to by a widower or someone who needs a second or 3rd wife or by a divorcee who has 3 children and wants you to take care of them! If […]

QUESTION: My husband’s family didn’t let us be with him. He settled a separate setup for us near his parents but His mother threw us out of it. Now he will not keep us and not even giving money for my children expenditure if I will not go back. I want to tell you his mother had already done this 4 times before I requested my husband to move somewhere he denied. Nd said My mother is more imp. Plz guide me

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Feb

ANSWER: If your husband is a mommy’s boy and not a real man, you have no other alternative but to go back or to file for divorce. It is your right in Islam to have a separate house. If you are in a country that honors your rights as a wife and a mother, take […]

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