Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Sheikh In Islam is there any value of commitment given to someone for nikkah… That I will marry you.. no Haram relationship just via family I have communicated that I will marry you .. if I search somewhere else will I be sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Sep

ANSWER: No, there are no strings attached and you can simply have a change of heart and marry someone else as they themselves can also reject your proposal and marry someone else.

QUESTION: If a husband inserts his finger into his wife’s vagina (to the point she is satisfied) while she is menstruating, is this haram? If it is haram, and he did it without knowing that it was prohibited, is there any kaffarah required, or is sincere tawbah sufficient?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Menstruation and post-natal bleeding

30 Aug

ANSWER: Its not permissible to touch her private part when she is bleeding because the menstrual blood is najis. He should repent to Allah and not do it again. There is no kaffarah for this.

QUESTION: My dad is adamant that I accept a marriage proposal. I’ve done my istikhara and I’m not satisfied but he says I’m doing my istikhara wrong. He said if I reject this proposal he will not be involved in any of my marriage proposal process later. All of this is making me really anxious. What do I do

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

29 Aug

ANSWER: You must look into the proposal and assess it from all sides and see how many boxes does he check! If he is a truly good proposal to lose, you should reconsider and check with elders and wise people in the family for advice. If he does’t check a lot of the boxes, do […]

QUESTION: Is my father still my wali if he has said in the past things of kufr or joked about Islam? Advising him is hard because he says, “I know Islam better than you.” I’ve had marriage proposals, but I don’t know how to regard my father’s position as wali. I don’t want to act without an opinion because I’m afraid my nikah may not be valid.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

27 Aug

ANSWER: If he were to die today, would you inherit him and accept your share of his wealth or would you reject it on the basis he is a kafir?

QUESTION: I got a proposal the groom family is salafis namazi and deendar and are very reputated people and also very rich but groom is 12th pass and iam a btech graduate should we accept this proposal

Fiqh of Marriage

16 Aug

ANSWER: Is he going to teach you? His degree doesn’t have anything to do with marriage even if you had PhD!

QUESTION: Please enlighten me how we should pray for our sister, who is not getting any match for marriage, owing to her dark skin complexion and one broken engagement due to the same reason.

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Aug

ANSWER: Ask Allah who is the provider to send her way someone who would cherish her and take care of her and make her happy.

QUESTION: If I were to carry out full financial responsibilities towards my wife, I can’t help out my elderly parents. My dad can’t find a job and my mum has to work to make ends meet. On paper, it is a man’s duty to work and spend on his family, but the reality may not be so straightforward. How to go about?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Kind Treatment of Spouses

06 Aug

ANSWER: You are obligated to provide for your wife and children and will be accountable for that. Supporting your parents is virtuous, but if you cannot afford it, you are not sinful.

QUESTION: How to balance kindness to wife and not letting her disrespect you

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

29 Jul

ANSWER: You need to become a man and differentiate between being kind and when someone disrespects you! There are many wacko people out there who exaggerate things way beyond proportion and make an issue of a no issue! Such people are hard to live with and they need counseling and a lot of mentoring until […]

QUESTION: We know that if a wali of a women is not present her marriage is not valid, but what if she does not speak anymore with her father and has no parental uncles etc. The imam has to be the wali right? But is his prsence in the nikkah sufficient or must he act like a wali doing things like doing a background check on the men etc?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family, Marriage and the Muslim Family, Marriage Contract

24 Jul

ANSWER: It’s not permissible at all for the imam to be your wali! If your father genuinely is not responding, then go meet him personally and even after that if he refuses to be present for your wedding and is not willing to even deputise his brother or his father or your brother to act […]

QUESTION: i m 29 n a dr, i want to a marry a girl whom i have been in relation for 2 years but sincerely repented and want to make it halal. She is from a noble educated family,but my mother rejects her saying her deen doesnt validate enough since she was in a relation with me,furthermore they say its early for you to marry wait 6 years then marry whensettled, am i sinful forstandingagainst,what should i do

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

18 Jul

ANSWER: If you are financially independent and can give your wife a separate accommodation and bare all the household finances then you don’t need anyone’s permission except the consent of the girl’s wali (father)

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