ANSWER:

You need to become a man and differentiate between being kind and when someone disrespects you!

There are many wacko people out there who exaggerate things way beyond proportion and make an issue of a no issue! 

Such people are hard to live with and they need counseling and a lot of mentoring until they can think properly and know how to differentiate between friends and foes!

QUESTION: How to balance kindness to wife and not letting her disrespect you

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | July 29, 2026 6:32 pm
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QUESTION: We know that if a wali of a women is not present her marriage is not valid, but what if she does not speak anymore with her father and has no parental uncles etc. The imam has to be the wali right? But is his prsence in the nikkah sufficient or must he act like a wali doing things like doing a background check on the men etc?