Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Are apps like Salam* and muzmatc* haram ?

04 Jan

ANSWER: It is not permissible to use dating apps for Muslims! If this is a matrimonial app that doesn’t post women’s photos and doesn’t provide their numbers and only gives the number of her wali, this seems permissible.

QUESTION: First, please do not judge me. I am very ashamed of my self. I desperately need help/advice. When I was 18 years old, I got into a haram relationship with a boy. We were not allowed to get married due to cultural differences. 4 years later, I married someone else and the boy also got married However, throughout our marriages we always kept in touch and occasionally met

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

03 Jan

ANSWER: The question is not complete! However, how do you want me not to judge you and from what I have read, you are married but you are cheating on your husband? No Muslim woman would do that no matter what the reasons are! Either be faithful or ask him for divorce. Have some shame […]

QUESTION: I just want to know if I forgive my going to be spouse’s past where she fell in haraam doings and accept her.. Will I be rewarded from Allah for it? I’m afraid to break her heart as I feel her honesty and love for me? Note: she said all her past from her own without me asking it.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be rewarded for that. She was wrong in telling you what Allah has concealed. However, you must never bring this topic up again if you want Allah to reward you.

QUESTION: I’m not able to decide. I’m going to get married and the girl I’m marrying said in a discussion that you might not find me vrgn due to her past relationship whr she did haraam many times.. What I should do? Please suggest…

Fiqh of Marriage

28 Dec

ANSWER: She’s not the last girl on earth! Move on and look for a pious muslimah who would be the mother of your children It’s not permissible to ask about people’s past life or their sins nor is it permissible to expose your own sins in front of ANYONE

QUESTION: Some people do Nikah on a day and Valima on the next immediate day and they have feasts for both. But I was told that only Valima feasts is from Sunnah and that Nikah feasts is not from Sunnah. So should we not attend Nikah feasts, sheikh?

Fiqh of Marriage

28 Dec

ANSWER: No problem in this as long as the father is doing that willingly without the groom’s side forcing or pressuring him to do so.

QUESTION: Mostly in India/pakistan,sons are told by their mom’s not to share things with their wife.like a divorce,upcoming close relative wedding or any small stuff which eventually surfaces n causes fights amongst couples.what advise you give to d mom n the husband?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

26 Dec

ANSWER: A wife who would make an issue of this deserves what she gets! She should be bigger than this! If she has small brains that would make her pick up fights over such silly things that would not benefit her or gain her anything, she is the only one to be blamed for what […]

QUESTION: I’m married and i had a sinful past, I regret what i did and still repenting to Allah to fogive me but I’m scared m’y husband Will find out about It and not forgive me and divorce me, he Is very doubtful about me so if he makes Deep résearces he might find out. Do you think Allah will conceal m’y past ans cover for my sins? Is there any dua i can say to

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

16 Dec

ANSWER: In sha Allah He will conceal them and its totally prohibited to confess to any of your sins in front of ANYONE, especially your husband. These feelings are from satan to depress and sadden you. Simply ignore them and never contemplate on them and concentrate on being an obedient and a loving wife to […]

QUESTION: This summer my dad got me in an arranged marriage and didn’t ask for my permission and I’m not happy with this marriage in fact I like someone else and he’s on deen I haven’t spoken to him before as I want to do it the halal way but now that I’m marred off without my convent can I still pray for his to make the other man my Naseeb?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Nov

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited and decent married women don’t think about other men, lest alone pray to be with them! You had a chance to say no to the marriage but you chose not to so you must give your 100% to this marriage and make your husband happy if you want Allah to […]

QUESTION: Is it possible to meet multiple times your potential spouse in front of the waliye or is only the initial meeting perrmissible

Fiqh of Marriage

20 Nov

ANSWER: Only the initial meeting is permissible unless there’s a legitimate reason for a follow up meeting as in the case he is not sure he took a good look.

QUESTION: My parents, the other day has basically given me the ultimatum to choose between them or my husband. They want me to divorce my husband or they will disown me. This is a regular occurrence as they despise my husband. What do I do sheikh? Is this permissible? Who holds more status/value in islam?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

13 Nov

ANSWER: Don’t pay any attention to what they say about your husband. Choose your husband and be good to him and Allah will hold your parents accountable on the day of judgment for their attempts to destroy your marriage like this!

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