ANSWER:

If you are financially independent and can give your wife a separate accommodation and bare all the household finances then you don’t need anyone’s permission except the consent of the girl’s wali (father)

QUESTION: i m 29 n a dr, i want to a marry a girl whom i have been in relation for 2 years but sincerely repented and want to make it halal. She is from a noble educated family,but my mother rejects her saying her deen doesnt validate enough since she was in a relation with me,furthermore they say its early for you to marry wait 6 years then marry whensettled, am i sinful forstandingagainst,what should i do