ANSWER: He can never be her guardian as he is not from her kinship and she doesn’t carry his name.  Her guardian is her biological paternal kinship and if they are not known, then the muslim judge or the authorized Muslim Imam becomes her guardian. 

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ANSWER: You are not obliged to work outside the house or even take care of his mother. Providing for the house is the man’s responsibility, not the other way around. Be firm and adamant about staying at home and make him man up. You must weigh the pros and cons of leaving him wisely and […]

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ANSWER: You must not have any communication with her whatsoever as she is still nonmahram to you.  A real man doesn’t need the approval of his parents when getting married to a practicing woman if he is financially independent.  As long as you are going to provide her with a separate accommodation, you don’t need your […]

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