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You should take it in a positive way that he is very keen to have your attention. 

There are ladies who cry saying that their husband doesn’t want to have any contact with them through the day. 

You can send him messages from your side before he sends any to show him that you thought of him. If you fail to tackle such a trivial issue in your marriage, what will you do when there is a real crisis in your life?

Actually i recently got married and had to come back to my hometown because of some unfinished duties so my husband and I are having a long distance relationship,he gets mad if I don’t check his messages immediately and claims I don’t really care about him and tried to fight without understanding my reasoning.I try to always see it positively but its affecting me mentally

Kind Treatment of Spouses | August 13, 2020 4:47 pm
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I feel very depressed as my husband is not regular with his prayers. Even if he prays, I’m not sure if it’s accepted because he is just too quick with it. How do I explain him about the importance of salah as he is short tempered? Sometimes he even misses Friday prayers.
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I and my husband both have good jobs. He is asking me to spend my money on our house whilst he is spending on his parents( which he claims). My salary account is joint account and his is personal. I know Islamically it’s the man’s duty to spend on me. 1) How can I tell him gently that I don’t want to spend my money and want him to spend on me.