Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: I don’t know what to do ,I’m married .. But my parents are asking me to study further and do job and sling me to be financially independent .. on other side my in-laws doesn’t like me studying.. even I’m not interested in further studies.. I’m in such a dilemma.. what should I do … How can I convince my parents??

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

25 Feb

ANSWER: Simply ignore their demands without being disrespectful. Your parents and your in laws have nothing to do with your life. This is between you and your husband. Everyone else must mind their own business and stay out of your life.

QUESTION: Last week, I asked you about my sister who is not working and unable to contribute to the expenses, I forgot to mention that our father is dead, our mother is unable to work, our source of income is not enough, I just want us to work together for the expenses because I can’t do it alone, our sister is our eldest. This is my question how do we deal with this situation

Fiqh of the family

22 Feb

ANSWER: This is the role of men and not women to work. Your men must provide for you so that you would avoid mixing with men If this is not possible, we should try to minimize the risk by asking one or more to work and not all women or sisters. You are obliged to […]

QUESTION: My father uses credit card and he has many EMI going on as well on it, he wants me help him pay the monthly bill (with his money). Am I sinful if I help him?

Fiqh of the family, Riba

21 Feb

ANSWER: Yes, you will be sinful if there is riba (interest) involved.

QUESTION: If the father or mother is alive can I give sadqa/donate certain amount of money to built the masjid in their name on behalf of my parents? Will they get rewards alive and even after they are dead ?

Charity, Fiqh of the family

13 Feb

ANSWER: Yes to both questions.

QUESTION: Is it allowed to differentiate among one’s kid as Yaqoob (pbuh) did. He loved his two sons ( Yusuf pbuh and Bin Yameen) more than others, that’s why other siblings became jealous.

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

11 Feb

ANSWER: 1- Love is in the heart and one has no control over it. What is not permissible is to differentiate in treatment.

QUESTION: My sister has stopped studying and she doesn’t want to look for a job and she doesn’t listen to our parents’ advice, she is old and she can’t even contribute to the household expenses, how do we deal with this situation sheikh?

Fiqh of the family

07 Feb

ANSWER: Why is your father asking her to earn and contribute in the expenses?! It’s not her responsibility, it’s the duty of the father to provide for his family!

QUESTION: My mother forces me to wear taweez. So, I opened the taweez and burned the paper inside. Is this sufficient? Can iI fill it with an empty paper and seal it since i cannot show my mother that i dont have a taweez. Will that also be considered shirk? The paper had grids with number in it and some arabic text under that. What does that mean?

Fiqh of the family, Shirk and its different forms

30 Jan

ANSWER: You must not wear it and must convince your mother that this is shirk so that you can save her as well from hellfire.

QUESTION: My mother is forcing me to dance at my cousin’s wedding with a non mahram..I told my mom I won’t dance because it is haram…now she is angry with me and is abusing me and not talking to me since yesterday…what should I do now?

Fiqh of the family, Sports, Entertainment and Music

25 Jan

ANSWER: Remain to be dutiful and respectful despite her behavior but hold your ground and never obey her in something that angers Allah.

QUESTION: My husband and I live in *****, we are both working and got married last year. After marriage, he uses religion only to oppress me. His brother lives with us he tells me to stay in normal clothing and asks me to spend time with him, cook for him and treat him like a son. He is only 2 years younger to me. His parents are also very controlling and create issues if I don’t call them.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

09 Jan

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited! You must put your foot down and never come in front of him like this and never be alone with him in the house. He is obliged to provide you with a separate house. If he doesn’t do that, you are better off leaving him before you conceive from him!

QUESTION: our father passed away 7 yrs ago,he has a sis who is divorcee since more than 50 yrs ,she stay in our native place and we all brothers stay abroad,so it’s not easy for us to visit her and take care of her neither she is in that mental state that she can com and stay with our mother in city so she is old and all alone,what is our duty towards her and what shld we do so that we r not sinful .

Fiqh of the family

09 Jan

ANSWER: If she doesn’t have any siblings or children, you are her heirs if she were to die. You all must arrange a maid to live with her or to check on her and you all should chip in to look after her expenses if she’s in financial need. You all must be in touch […]

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