ANSWER:

Simply ignore their demands without being disrespectful.

Your parents and your in laws have nothing to do with your life. This is between you and your husband. Everyone else must mind their own business and stay out of your life. 

QUESTION: I don’t know what to do ,I’m married .. But my parents are asking me to study further and do job and sling me to be financially independent .. on other side my in-laws doesn’t like me studying.. even I’m not interested in further studies.. I’m in such a dilemma.. what should I do … How can I convince my parents??