Fiqh of the family

QUESTION: Is it islamically okay, if you try to knowledge ur parents because they’re following the wrong aqeedah but they’re stubborn & disagree with things that lead to major sins & most of times arguments happen (sometimes because my tone is not nice). Does Allah dislike this type quarrelling? Would I be sinful?

Fiqh of the family, Knowledge & Propagation

17 Sep

ANSWER: Of course you are sinful and committing sins! Their dislike of Islam is due to your attitude and style as you are the reason they are rejecting sunnah and that is because of you.

QUESTION: I am a revert for 3 years now and my parents are against Islam. They are constantly saying things like they want to take my children to see Santa or do Christmas stuff (they are babies) or buying them presents for Christmas. I am grateful for gifts however I have been patient and not replying but how can I handle the situation in the most respectful way? They are aware of Islam rule

Fiqh of the family

04 Sep

ANSWER: You must not let them take the children to such haram Kafir gatherings or to meet such people. If they send you gifts for the children, you can accept such gifts without being with them on Christmas Day or the likes.

QUESTION: My engagement got broken after a year due to family issues but we both still love each other and believe we will be good spouses. Should I keep trying for her and think of ways to fix those issues or just leave considering it’s Allah’s will?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

02 Sep

ANSWER: You must not have any communication with her whatsoever as she is still nonmahram to you. A real man doesn’t need the approval of his parents when getting married to a practicing woman if he is financially independent. As long as you are going to provide her with a separate accommodation, you don’t need your […]

QUESTION: My brother suddenly wants to quit medical college for a business, despite my parents’ rational discussions. He expects our father to set up the business for him but is refused. My brother also seems scared, hopeless, has anxiety and mentions thoughts of sucid. This puzzling behavior has left my parents concerned, wondering if it’s due to black magic or the evil eye. What do you think?

Fiqh of the family

22 Aug

ANSWER: I don’t know! Maybe he is just a spoiled brat pressuring his parents to do what he wants or he will fall on the ground crying and making a scene!

QUESTION: Sheikh, i love my parents soo much,And they love me too.but they tend to give more attention to my sister like buying her things that i don’t have,and sending her to summer classes while they didn’t care abt what i wanted to do.they tell that they will do this n that if i do something and after i do,they just don’t care.it’s frustrating and i disobey sometimes,advise me,i am afraid of losing janna

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

21 Aug

ANSWER: You should fear Allah and treat them with respect and obedience while being dutiful. Favoring your sister over you is sinful and Allah will hold them accountable for that. However, disobeying them and displeasing them is a major sin that you will be held accountable for no matter what your excuse is. Stop being […]

QUESTION: I have a very toxic relation with my parent they bully me, talk bad about my character with my relatives and I’m a girl. They did my studies private as well. They bully me every day. I’m so done that I want to su*cide. I’m so distracted that I can’t focus on my Deen and my studies.My question is that can I runaway from my parents house and start a new life myself?

Fiqh of the family

19 Aug

ANSWER: Running away from home is like jumping from the pan into the fire. The roof over your head is a bigger blessing than you can ever imagine, despite the bullying. Each person goes through different trials. Abusive people act the way they do in order to upset and depress others. They live and thrive on […]

QUESTION: Is it permissible for a wife to kiss her hubby on forehead infront their adult children when hubby is leaving home for work ??

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

18 Aug

ANSWER: This is recommended and permissible.

QUESTION: Should i tell my future wife that my parents often mad to each other (uncondusif family situation), bcs i didnt want her to be upset if she knows after mariage or it is considered as telling family aib which is prohibited?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

12 Aug

ANSWER: This is of no concern to her or her family as she is marrying you and not them. Respect your parents and do not go around telling people about their flaws.

QUESTION: Can my mother live with me after my marriage? My one brother lives in abroad n another one is no more, and my father doesn’t live with us.. What should i do if my husband denies it? Can i leave him?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

31 Jul

ANSWER: If your husband denies it, you can’t have her live in his house without his consent. If there is no one at all on earth who can take care of her even if by renting outside help and she is unable to live alone without your help and assistance, you should leave your husband […]

QUESTION: My father consumes Alcohol on a daily basis. My mother and we (3) siblings tried so many times to make him understand that it is haram. He always agrees that he won’t but he starts again. we are so much disturbed as I am the elder daughter(working) and my siblings are studying. could you please guide me on what to do in that case?

Fiqh of the family, Sins

30 Jul

ANSWER: He is an adult and you have no control over him. You can only advise him and remind him of Allah’s wrath for whomever commits such a major sin and how Allah doesn’t accept his prayers for 40 days and how he would drink in hell from the puss and blood that comes out […]

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