ANSWER: Of course this is cheating and prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that a person who cheats is not from among us! This is not extreme at all, your son is on the correct track, do not lead him astray by discouraging him from following the correct path!
Read moreANSWER: I am shocked of how you are holding your father accountable like this as if you are his partners and not his son! Instead of putting an eye on his wealth and anticipating the moment he dies to inherit him, you should be asking him to sit back and relax while you work and […]
Read moreANSWER: This is not permissible. When giving gifts, all children must be given equally. Allowance and other needs should be given according to their needs and age.
Read moreANSWER: Be steadfast and try to get married soon so you could leave them and practice Islam freely. You must not pretend you are not muslim just to please them if there is no real threat to your safety.
Read moreANSWER: You must not join nor help them in decorating for such Haram events nor participate in these gatherings and celebrations. There’s no pleasing or obedience to anyone at the cost of disobedience to Allah.
Read moreANSWER: You must not listen to her in this regard at all and must say it respectfully but firmly to her that you won’t hear anything about your husband or your married life from anyone. Whenever she starts to talk about him, either change the topic or leave her. It’s not permissible to cut communication […]
Read moreANSWER: Once you wake them up and have advised them, you have done your duty and can move on. You can only force those whom you have control over such as your children and wife.
Read moreANSWER: You cannot monitor them 24/7 like this. You have done your job if you taught them the ethics of Islam and if they sin even after this, you are not sinful. Restricting them from halal things and spying on them would only make them cheat and lie to you and also drive them away […]
Read moreANSWER: I don’t know their point of view! Maybe you are lazy or demanding or spoiled and expect them to spoon feed you! They are right in the sense that they had spent on you their entire lives and on your siblings and this can’t go on forever. You need to man up and relieve […]
Read moreANSWER: Praying for them is a good deed but it must not be connected to his prayers or before going to bed! Praying for them has no value if he is during the day an undutiful disobedient son!
Read more