Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

I am from Bangladesh and I stay separately with my husband. My parent in-laws are not happy with the decision and would come to my house only when i would invite all of them specially my sister in law & her husband to my house once. Although I visit my parent in laws and send food, Is invitation to so many non maharam necessary, to please them?

24 May

ANSWER: You are not obliged to invite his family often, however, if this would make your husband happy, you can try to invite them more often to your convenience. You must not come out in front of non-mahrams or mix with them whatsoever. The invitation must also be segregated as you shouldn’t allow them to […]

I dont live with my in laws. My mother in law always taunt me whenever i talk her over the phone or face to face which affects me mentally and my marrital life also. So i stopped calling her and going in laws. Am i sinful for this or what else i can do?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

17 May

ANSWER: No, you’re not sinful as you’re not obliged to maintain ties with them because they’re not your kinship. However, you must give them Salam whenever you meet them somewhere. You should also grow up as normal people and mentally healthy people are not affected like this! She is your children’s grandmother and the mother […]

My husband wants us to celebrate Eid with his family and said that we will never celebrate Eid with my family as they are non Muslim and they only celebrated Eid for my sake (he meant my family doesn’t want to hurt me so they celebrated it for my sake). Is it wrong to celebrate Eid with my family? Or is it better to celebrate Eid with Muslims?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

01 May

ANSWER: Do not make it a huge issue, you could host a big get together at your place and invite both the in-laws and your family at the same time. Or You could visit them the next day too. Concentrate on creating a happy atmosphere rather than keeping score.

I live with my inlaws and their children are very ill mannered they waste food,yell at elders,throw away food,burp on faces and if i try to correct them strictly their parents dont like it, i have 6 monthsold son too m scared he will get influenced by them.grandmother gets angry if we try to correct them she tells they can do anything as they r small for it to learm manners!! What should i do?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

21 Apr

ANSWER: You have all the right to have a separate accommodation. If this is not possible then keep yourself to your room and only come out when it’s necessary. You have no right in correcting these children if their parents don’t want you to!

I wanted to ask as my husband went for some work to his country for 2 weeks and I am living here with my mother in law and father in law in Saudia Arabia. So if I need to go outside like shopping I need to take permission from inlaws?? Is it compulsory ??just want to add that I am a working woman. Kindly reply

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

05 Apr

ANSWER: You are not obliged to take permission from anybody other than your husband.

My husband lives abroad and wants me to live with his family in their house. I have been married for 4 years now and living where he desires. But I can’t do it any longer,his mom keeps nagging at me all the time for every little thing,it’s difficult for me to stay with them. I told him I don’t want to stay here but he refuses to listen. What should I do?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

02 Apr

ANSWER: Try to be diplomatic as you don’t want to end up being divorced if he is a stubborn man who listens to his mother’s nagging! You are not obliged to serve his family as your responsibility lies only in serving him and his children. Do not argue with his mother no matter what she […]

Could you please tell me about the relationship of father-in-law with her daughter-in-law

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

25 Mar

ANSWER: Father in law is a permanent mahram of a daughter in law. He remains her mahram all her life, even if his son dies or he divorces his wife.

I would like to know if I am wrong or not. Being a daughter in law, my mother in law allows herself to move freely in my house( note that I live upstairs) or comment negatively on my way of cooking and my way of cleaning my house (note that i am a working mother). My sister in law also do tell me things like my husband is depressive since he got married.. how do I respond to that

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

15 Feb

ANSWER: Do not pay any attention to their comments and do not engage in any argument or dialogue with them! If they accuse you with something, give them a big smile and do not defend yourself. This will kill them softly for failing to provoke you to respond in a negative way! After a while, […]

My mother in law while having food together always offer food to my hubby n she even takes food from her plate n offers it to him n ignores me though i have made all the food.this is only one thing i have mentioned. my hubby says he can’t say anything to his mom coz he will go to hell.i want to know cant he tell her politely,even if they r doing wrong v should b quiet?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

13 Feb

ANSWER: Your mother in law is not required to offer it to you and is only doing what is natural to her by looking after her son. You must act according to your beliefs and convictions! Your good upbringing declares that you are kind and respectful towards your mother in law. Don’t let her attitude make […]

My brother is travelling to my country for a visit and is staying at my flat for a month. Is he allowed to stay at my flat? I live with my wife in a 2 bed flat. Our bedroom has an attached bathroom and my brother will have his. If I’m out for work and my brother happen to be at home, is he allowed to stay as long as he remain in his room?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

10 Feb

ANSWER: It is not permissible at all for him to stay in the same apartment with your wife while you’re not home. https://youtu.be/OvPMHo5SGZ0

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