Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

Shaikh, I wanted to know if it’s obligatory on a girl to seek permission from her in-laws and to inform them the reason why she wants to visit her parents place?

06 Nov

ANSWER: No, she is not obliged to listen to them and neither take any permission from them. Only her husband can ask her and give her permission.

Can we cast spell on impudent mother in law who doesn’t let her son to be happy with his wife and blames his wife for no reason,and want them to get divorced(it’s just a month they got married and she choosed the girl herself)so can we go for magic not to harm her in any way but just to refrain her form saying hurtful, filthy words?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye

01 Oct

ANSWER: This is absolutely prohibited and doing this would take you out of the fold of Islam!! https://islamqa.info/en/answers/12578/witchcraft-and-seeking-help-from-practitioners-of-it

I’m married for 7 yrs and live with my mother in law who is worst with me, always try to ruin my marriage. Me and husband fight bcz of her, he had hit me many times. He made me a servant and my kids obedient by hitting. I still behave well but now I want a separate house he refused, said I will not leave my mother and want me to live close to sis in law whr thr is joimt family system. Wht shd I do

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

23 Aug

ANSWER: It is your right in islam to ask for a separate accommodation. It is not allowed for him to hit you like this as this is domestic violence and most countries incriminate such an action. Consult your parents and elders and then you can come with a decision. https://www.assimalhakeem.net/my-motherinlaw-is-bing-vry-aggressive-and-vile-towards-me-im-not-allowd-to-sit-with-the-family-eat-with-the-family-n-also-cook-for-my-husband-or-myself-she-says-i-cant-eat-the-food-she-makes-whe/

Sheikh im a married woman and whenever i want to go to my parents house i have to take permission from my in laws. Is this right? My husband does not have any problem in allowing to go to my parents house. He says just ask my parents if they say yes then u can go. My husband is MaShaAllah Alhamdulilah very nice. Sometimes they say no.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

07 Aug

ANSWER: Your in laws have no right in stopping you from going to your parents house or stopping you from anything. You don’t have any duties towards them, none whatsoever. You’re only obliged to obey your husband. If he has no problem, you can go even if your in laws don’t approve of it. You […]

Sheikh i live with in-laws i have 4 brother in-laws i wanna do parda but if i or my husband will talk about this my in-laws will surely said yu studied in university dat time where was your so called parda they will say it’s drama to live separately from them taking away their son kindly briefly ans me in my past life i just covered my head in front of namahram now i wanna live as musl

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

03 Aug

ANSWER: It doesn’t matter how you were in the past, what counts is your present and future. You must repent from your past sins sincerely with deep remorse and start observing the actual Islamic hijab in front of all non mahram males no matter what anyone says. You must not listen to your husband at […]

What are the rights from a daughter/son-in-law to their father/mother-in-law? What is the right of the in-laws?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

30 Jul

ANSWER: The parents in law have no rights whatsoever. However, they should be respected as they’re elders and parents of the spouse.

Sheikh my question is that my husband is living in france and im living here in pakistan.i just want to know without husband is it ok to live with in laws while there are so many non mehrams.i want to live with my mother please guide me about this that what islam say about this??

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

23 Jul

ANSWER: You must not live with your in-laws when your husband is not there, especially when non-mahrams are there. Go and stay at your parents house.

When we say, a wife is not obliged to serve her parents-in-law, they say, it becomes obligatory if the husband commands to do so. Because it is obligatory to obey husband’s command. Is it true? If it is, then every husband will command like this and will make it obligatory upon women.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Jul

ANSWER: No, the husband has no right in commanding her to serve his parents as he has no right in asking her to stand on one leg for an hour for example. She is not obliged to obey him in whatever he orders her to do!

My in laws didnt allow me to go for Namaz e Eid.. Sheikh what should i do??

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

17 Jun

ANSWER: Your approval and denial comes only from your husband. Your in laws have no authority over you. Ask your husband for a separate home if he is living with you in a joint family. If he is abroad for work, demand from him that you go and live with your parents until he comes […]

I have tried my best to fulfill my husband rights on me. But he ignores me when he is with his family. I fought for his time & care also I used to live with my parents when my husband lived out of country. Due to this my husband is not happy and blames me for not giving his family time and care. His family is very demanding and thinks they have more right on my daughter than anyone else.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

08 Jun

ANSWER: You are not obliged in Islam to serve your in-laws and you are not sinful for not giving his family time or care however, you must not stop him from serving them as this is his obligation. You need to be diplomatic and tactful as his family are most likely whispering bad things about […]

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