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Sheikh, I suffer from evil whispers from the shaitan and recently the shaitan has been whispering to me saying the I fear the hell fire more than i fear Allah and its trying to make me believe that I fear jahanam more than I fear Allah. I don’t like these thoughts, and its really bothering me. What should I do? What if these thoughts are true?

Psychological Problems

17 Apr

Assalamu alaikum, ignore these whispers and seek refuge in Allah each time they come up. Fearing hell is part of fearing Allah! Make loads of dhikr and hold tight to the daily prescribed adhkar.

Assalamu alaikum sheikh, I was staying over at someone’s place and after using the toilet when Iflushed water flew on my clothes I couldn’t change my Clothes. So whereever I sat or whatever I used was it all impure and the abaya Iwore over those clothes ?

Purity

16 Apr

Wa alaikum salaam, If it flew when flushing the toilet, this might be pure from the water container and it might be impure. Therefore, if you are not sure, the default is that it is pure.

Assalamu alaikum sheikh, After washing the clothes urine stain is still there on myundergarments, so if I touch it do I require to wash my hands?And I washed it twice still the stain hasn’t gone so is the garment still impure?

Purity

16 Apr

Wa alaikum salaam, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ls2RhauICk [1] The garment is not impure.

Assalamu alaikum sheikh, If I put the clothes in which there is urine for wash and while puttingit touches the outer rim of the washing machine, so now everytime Iremove the clothes will they become impure again?And suppose I had a doubt if I cleaned myself properly after using the washroom or noAnd right after that sit on the remote by mistakeWill I need to ćlean the remote with a wet towel or is it clean?

Purity

16 Apr

Wa alaikum salaam, all these thoughts are a bit “too much” and you must control your thoughts each time shaytan whispers them to you by seeking refuge in Allah! Otherwise it might turn into an OCD. You don’t know for sure that urine has been transferred to the rim. Therefore, you should ignore this doubt.

Assalamu alaikum sheikh, My servant actually washes the toilet of the servants first and then mineSo Is it ok, will my bathroom be clean if she washes it because theservants obviously use the washroom in a dirty way with no cleanliness Urine on the rim that is . Can the servant use the SAME cleaning materials for my washroom or does my washroom also become Impure?

Purity

16 Apr

Wa alaikum salaam, No problem. You can ask them to clean yours first though the tools they use are the same and they will not change it the other day. As long as you don’t see impurity, such doubts are baseless.

Assalamu alaikum sheikh, I have a muslim friend in front of whose house a dog comes and urinateson the gate often.She doesn’t clean it. Now my question is whenever she is entering the gate her abaya touchesthe gate where the dog urinates Do her clothes become impure and inturn sometimes my abaya touches hers.does my abaya also become impure and sometimes my abaya is kept on hers.does that also make my abaya impure? And does everywhrere she keep her abaya become impure?Actually I visit herhouse quite often and don’t know i have to wash my abaya and clothes everytime I come from her house.Jazakallahu khair.

Purity

16 Apr

Wa alaikum salaam This urine probably is dry in about ten minutes. Therefore, it has no effect on your dry clothes.

Assalamu alaikum sheikh, Is it permissible to wash the clothes we urinated in only once in the washing machine Coz after washing oncealso.the soap remains means the cuff is not fully gone As a result I runthe machine close to six times till I see no soap This happens even if iput minimum washing powder My question is will my clothes become pure after washing them once or should I wash them until the soap is gone?

Purity

16 Apr

Wa aalikum salam As long as there are no traces of impurities on it, it is clean.

Assalam o Aliekum, I have a query. There was a job opportunity where my friend isworking. There was vacant position, my friend asked for my CV. He altered my CV with some extra experience and forward to managerAfter a day a person interviewed me, and i told him every thing truly. but unable to clear to the manager.should I join that job, if the manager still not informed, who has to approve? As i mentioned in the question that i told the truth to interviewer, butunable to tell the manager because i had no conversation with him. Inthis case if i have been selected, so what should i do. As i know the manager was not informed, but i have Cleared to the interviewer form my side.

Character and Morals

16 Apr

Wa alaikum salaam, You should tell them that the information is not correct. If you would be asked say the truth. As long as you said the truth in the interview and you are qualified for the job, I hope that this is enough.

In a proposal we came to know different things about the man,our family friend insist to my dad that he knows the boy well is good but what we came to know from his ex wife’s family was opposite.How will we decide?More than them i personally trust our family friend because through them i learned about islam and the ex wife’s family are involved in shirk but still confused

Uncategorized

16 Apr

Assalaamu alaikum, You have face him with what they say about him. Many families don’t fear Allah after divorcee and may try to tarnish his reputation. Let your father ask him about the accusations they have against him and see what he has to say in his defense.

I told my mom i intend to perform itikaf this ramadan just for 2 days i have never done it and my friends go often so wanted to do this time and also clear my mind in retreat.My mom was nothappy,i asked reason but she refused,she only said” girls dont go out and you never listened to me in these matters”Should i obey her?I make sure i dont neglect my parents duties but she dindt agree.

E'itikaaf

16 Apr

Assalaamu alaikum, You must obey her

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