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How long Tauba Nasuh should be and should it be remembered and felt remorse every instant,of time. After fulfilling the requirements of Tauba Nasuh and acknowledging sinning as bad and abstaining from committing sin, and stop remembering my past sins and stop remorsing over it. As rembering it all the time and feeling remorse is very tiring and energy consuming

Repentance

28 Aug

ANSWER: Repentance is not accepted until there is deep remorse eating away at your heart. It is when you stop feeling this that you need to be worried!

Sometimes wen we go to ppl’s houses, men come in our room (where we don’t have our hijab/niqab on). When this happens, we usually rush out or abruptly turn around to hide our faces or wear the niqab.. Its ‘rude’ n situation gets awkward.. Is wat we are doing too extreme? Shud we walk out/cover up more calmy, even if it means that men will get to see us/our faces for a bit longer?

Women clothing

26 Aug

ANSWER: You must not take off your hijab in the first place if you know men would come in! You should request the host to make sure that no men would enter the room where ladies are sitting. There is nothing rude in shouting at them and quickly hiding yourselves from such non mahram. Only […]

i want my future husband(whoever he is) to live in separate house after marriage.this decision should be entirely his own and his family should be supporting this decision.is this too much to ask for?is this demand islamically right?can i reject a proposal if a man doesn’t want to live in separate house?people around me often get amazed and tell me that this is not right…i m from pakistan!!!

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

26 Aug

ANSWER: It is every woman’s right in Islam to have a separate accommodation after marriage. Yes, you have the right to reject a proposal if he is not ready to provide you a separate accommodation. However you must not keep rejecting proposals like this as it would become very difficult to get good ones after […]

I know the virtues of maintaining kin ship as it is strongly recommended in Islam and there is curse on breaking the kinship,but in my case maintaining kinship is resulting in commiting sins like Gibah and other sins. Please advise shall I continue my aquintence with my close relatives or stay away to avoid sins

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

26 Aug

ANSWER: You must not break relationships even because of this. You should try to change the topic and give them dawah that backbiting is a major sin but if they persist then you should leave the room. You must not be part of any haram activities with them. If it’s totally unavoidable then you must […]

sheikh I’m getting alot of text and msgs related to the kiswa of kaba…they are saying that the wind blew and removed the kiswa is a sign of Allah’s anger showing the naked walls…can you please tell if thr is any reference to it in our history of hadith or told by sahaba….

Hajj and Umrah

26 Aug

ANSWER: This is totally baseless. It happened because of the windy weather and it has got no other significance at all. Those who claim such nonsense are lying on Allah and pretending to be prophets knowing what Allah wants!