Psychological and Social Problems

Can you suggest me something that would help me work on my patience, this is highly of concern to me, as my temper is short, I am more of anti social, get frustrated easily, and I am usually sick and unwell due to my depression which is a 12 month cycle. I don’t have self confidence, I hide in crowds, hate to be center of attention, always have a feeling of insecurity. I have tried so many things but never helped. The doctors tell me that I need a psychiatrist treatment, but I don’t want to get into it, it doesn’t help. They just gave me some anti depressants, which once if I got used to it, in the long run it can be dangerous. Help me

11 Mar

You lack confidence because you lack knowing Allah properly. You have to learn more about Allah. Reciting the Quran daily helps but it is not enough because you have to understand what you are reading. If you know Allah, you will have the confidence you need because you know that Allah is with you and […]

How can one increase their faith and gaurd themselves from bad thoughts?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

The whispers of Satan are compiling and continuous. A personal doubt comes to your mind and you swiftly discredit it and ignore it.

I am suffering from waswas and purity, i smell something even if there is nothing there. I used the washing machine today and some clothes had smell in them so i cleaned the dryer, and put everything back in the washer.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

You have to depend on Allah and put your trust in Him. you should also ask someone else to smell the clothes so that you can kick these evil thoughts for good from your mind. It is Satan who is trying to destroy your life with his wiswas. If you listen to him, you would […]

Is an oath valid if one swears an oath in their mind without saying it on their lips? Also i suffer from waswas. This is a major problem for me. my mind makes too many oaths beyond my control, my mind swears to do this or that or not to do this or that. I have no control over this. Do i owe expiation’s for those oaths? I am a little embarrassed to ask this .

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

This is not valid unless one says it verbally.

I have been feeling really depressed, and scared for the last couple of days. And I need guidance on how to overcome this feeling. dont want to leave my house and getting suicidal thoughts. Why am i feeling like this?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

This is from Satan who is trying to depress you so that he can divert you from the straight path and then have you join his path to relieve your depression. Most of the similar cases either appear when a person is trying to get closer to Allah or when a practicing person falls into […]

A person had a bad thought which could be in disrespect to Allah and the Book of Allah or anything relating to mockery or disrespect to the wives of the Prophet (salla Allahu aleyhi wa sallam) and ends up laughing at that thought…or smiling at that thought but it happens as a sudden reaction to the thought. i.e you try to force back the laughter or smile and dont intend to commit any kufr by it and know its wrong or sometimes your reaction is sudden and you realise after that it was wrong, but again dont mean any kufr or dont intend kufr by it.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

If this is an OCD and doctors say that this is an illness, there is nothing for you to do as you are sick. No one in his right mind and Islam would dare and do such a thing even if he claims he didn’t intend it.

I would like to know how to get rid of obsession, whether for a women or wordly things. It seems like my brain works in two ways: i don’t care about something or i’m completely obsessed with it.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

You must free yourself by enslaving it to Allah. A true believer is not obsessed except with worshiping Allah and wanting to please him. These things you are obsessed with are from Satan and he wants to distract you from Allah. Once you know this fact, you will know how dangerous this is and how […]

A sister have a friend Gay. From this situation we rise 2 questions…and one is already answered, Barak Allah fik..about friendship betwen man and women. The question is with regard to his choice of being Gay.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

We know that this thing is hated by Allah (swt) and those who are like this are cursed. She will be punished twice? First: because she talks to him even though he is not her Mahram. Secondly: because he is Gay? ………………………………. She will be punished because he is not her mahram but not because […]

Don’t you think that the mariage of Prophet (P.B.U.H) to Hazrat Ayesha supports child mariages in islam?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

When the child is like Aisha and the man is like the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, these is nothing wrong in that. At the end, every father wants the best for his daughter. In societies that supports homosexuality, anal sex, oral sex, animal sex and every weird thing you can think of and […]

I would like to know if a muslim is suffering of anxiety, as well as feeling cowardice. What practical steps can one take to overcome these feelings which makes him very depressed.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

Allah says in 3:175 “It is only Shaitân (Satan) that suggests to you the fear of his Auliyâ’ (supporters and friends (polytheists, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allâh and in His Messenger, Muhammad (peace be upon him))) so fear them not, but fear Me, if you are (true) believers.” What you are suffering from is […]

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