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This is up to you!

Someone that doesn’t want to live with you willingly, who would you have any interest to live with them by force?

If you won’t give her Khulu, the judge would award it to her forcefully whether you like it or not as it is unislamic to force a woman to stay with someone she doesn’t love or want. 

QUESTION: My wife requested khula 3 months ago, gave a letter to the Qadi, and cut off communication without trying reconciliation. I’ve called the Qadi 7–8 times; they keep saying they’ll call but haven’t. They’ve not contacted me or her family to understand the issue. I live abroad for work but am ready to attend a meeting anytime. Should I accept the khula or wait?

Divorce, Khula | May 13, 2025 12:30 am
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QUESTION: My husband is involved in adultery and doesnot want to keep me. He is not giving Talaq and insisting me to take khula so he can get Mehr(125grm of gold) back from me. If I don’t take khula, he said he and his family will continue to torture physical and mentally untill he frame me with another man or take my mahr back. What to do?
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QUESTION: I was forced to get married to my uncle’s son. Who wasn’t pray a single prayer,practing shirk, and doesn’t provide for me and child. Cursing during work and promising but doesn’t keep up his words. Can’t I give khula? My parents keep forcing me to get patch up with him. For the sake of the child. But we separated for almost 2years