I’m going to get married to a man who is righteous (his CV indicates so and i’ve met his family and him with my mahram). We both are on the same page with having a halal wedding. What advice would you give to tackle parents who seems to want to please people rather than Allah?
What do you mean by ‘to please people’?
If they want music, free mixing or any haram practices at the wedding, you must put your foot down and not allow this to happen but with utmost respect, diplomacy and by never raising your voice in front of your parents.