Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: At first I wasn’t ready to get married to my husband as I didn’t like him. Bt my parents wer aftr me I said no bt my dad warned tat if I domt marry him he will never talk so I said yes. At first I felt his nice n decent n he is nice I wont deny that but since a few days I’ve noticed he is very lazy does no work n little disrespectful n cuz of that I feel no love for hi

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

09 Feb

ANSWER: Since you had agreed to marry him, you must make it work. There may be many shortcomings and character traits about you that he might find off putting! No one is perfect in this world, you must look at the good qualities that he possess and overlook his negative points exactly like how you […]

QUESTION: Shaikh , is it a sin if I force my husband to tell me his phone password? As for me he knows my password and everything related to me but when I ask him , he says there are soo many secrets, should i let it go , because it hurts me alot when he says he have loyalty issues with me , i trust Allah fully, but what should I do ? Please advice me.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

05 Feb

ANSWER: You have no right in asking for his passwords nor does he have any right in knowing your’s!

QUESTION: What is the ruling on a woman who just married but refused her husband to have an intimate moment during their first night as husband and wife because the wife doesn’t want to get pregnant yet? Is the marriage nulled or void? What is the right of the husband on this matter?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Feb

ANSWER: The marriage is valid! The wife is cursed by the angels all night long till the break of dawn and this is every single night! Why did she marry him in the first place?

QUESTION: Is it permissible to see, talk with several persons, do several moukabala at the same time with purpose to get married ?

Fiqh of Marriage

27 Jan

ANSWER: If a man is interested in a woman, he may meet her in the initial marriage interview in the presence of her father or guardian. If he doesn’t see what he likes and he declines, he may see another woman. But to go and sit with 5 or 6 different women while each one […]

QUESTION: When my parents come to visit me and my children my wife misbehaves with them and fights with me afterwards saying that my parents have no right to come in my house. My parents live in their own house normally. I know that my wife has the right to a separate house in Islam but can she refuse to allow my parents to come to my house for a visit also?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Jan

ANSWER: She has no right to stop them from visiting you in your house as this is your house! She can object to them living there but not to visiting you!

QUESTION: How can we spy on a potential spouse if they don’t live near our home and it would not be appropriate to ask about their background(job location,friend’s name) and also they might be a sinner in the past but now they have repented and the people who may know the spouse might know about their past only and not their present condition??

Fiqh of Marriage

17 Jan

ANSWER: You must do your due diligence by asking around his work place and where he lives and in the masjid he prays in order to gather as much information as possible about him. This is a marriage and not a game.

QUESTION: Shaikh I hear from someone that if either the husband or wife dies, the Nikah is broken, so the remaining partner will not be allowed to see the face of another, and if the wife dies, the husband will not be allowed to go to the grave to bury her. is this authentic?

Fiqh of Marriage, Funerals

07 Jan

ANSWER: This is absolutely baseless and fabricated!

QUESTION: Me and my husband have some saving for our kids in our joint account.my in-laws came to know this and forced my husband to give his shares to his parents my husband is already taking care of parents and all his siblings with luxury lifestyle when I resist to share our savings they all came and threaten me with divorce and sent me to my mom home.hsbnd says he will loose jannah if mom goes angry

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

06 Jan

ANSWER: How the husband spends his earnings and savings is his choice. You cannot stop him from sharing his money with whom he wants. You are entitled to your earnings and you can do whatever you want with it. No one can force you to spend or save it. With such in laws, you must […]

QUESTION: In my place people book hall for marriages, and invite many people, the woman who is about to marry puts a lot of make up and wear best clothes is it permissible? Or should she be wearing abaya?

Fiqh of Marriage, Sports, Entertainment and Music, Women clothing

04 Jan

ANSWER: If such gatherings are segregated and no one would see her except other women, there is no problem in that. But if there is a possibility of a non mahram man to see her, this is totally prohibited.

QUESTION: Am about to get married in a few months. My in laws wants to have nikah in a function hall. Bt i want in a masjid. Bt they r insisting on function hall. What should I do sheikh? Is it okay to accept

Fiqh of Marriage

02 Jan

ANSWER: The walima is your responsibility according to your ability and will. Having it in a masjid is not from the sunnah and there is no special thing, as you can’t also invite people to dine in the masjid. Therefore, you should have it home or in a public place within reason and without extravagance. […]

More..