Psychological and Social Problems

I have a friend who is a practicing muslim (she prays, fasts, gives charity and wears hijaab etc…) but she often makes comments like ‘death penalty is wrong’, ‘Secular divorce law is the best’ etc and has a negative attitude towards many aspects of the shariah. I have politely told her that such beliefs and comments can lead to nullifying her Islam. But she still seems the same and likes to argue about these issues just for the sake of argument. What should I do now? Should I avoid her company?

11 Mar

Advise her and tell her that you will boycott her because of her ideas that are considered an act of apostasy and objection over the rulings of Allah.

Is it fine if girls to be rude to strangers (opposite gender) especially when they sense their intentions are not good and when they misbehave? And is it ok to deal with them with feeling of pride/arrogance/rudeness in order to show the strong side? …as I have seen the innocent and humble girls being mistreated . ( I know ALLAH protects) but this trick really works.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

This is permissible depending on the situation. Originally, girls shouldn’t interact with boys

If someone suffering from claustrophobia how she or he wil perform Haj?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

This depends on the degree. If she can not at all be in such places, Allah will forgive her. But if she can go but she is afraid, she must try herself and there isn’t anything wrong in going for therapy. And Allah knows best

I am a good Muslim, I try my best to please Allah and avoid making sins, but I suffer from anxiety phases. My question is: should I try doing ruqiah first or should I go and see a doctor?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

You should do Ruqya first by reciting Al Fatiha, ayatul kursi, the last 3 surah of the Quran 3,5 or 7 times and blow each time on water. Wash your face and drink this water in the morning, afternoon and evening and you will find with the grace of Allah positive results.

Can you suggest me something that would help me work on my patience, this is highly of concern to me, as my temper is short, I am more of anti social, get frustrated easily, and I am usually sick and unwell due to my depression which is a 12 month cycle. I don’t have self confidence, I hide in crowds, hate to be center of attention, always have a feeling of insecurity. I have tried so many things but never helped. The doctors tell me that I need a psychiatrist treatment, but I don’t want to get into it, it doesn’t help. They just gave me some anti depressants, which once if I got used to it, in the long run it can be dangerous. Help me

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

You lack confidence because you lack knowing Allah properly. You have to learn more about Allah. Reciting the Quran daily helps but it is not enough because you have to understand what you are reading. If you know Allah, you will have the confidence you need because you know that Allah is with you and […]

How can one increase their faith and gaurd themselves from bad thoughts?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

The whispers of Satan are compiling and continuous. A personal doubt comes to your mind and you swiftly discredit it and ignore it.

I am suffering from waswas and purity, i smell something even if there is nothing there. I used the washing machine today and some clothes had smell in them so i cleaned the dryer, and put everything back in the washer.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

You have to depend on Allah and put your trust in Him. you should also ask someone else to smell the clothes so that you can kick these evil thoughts for good from your mind. It is Satan who is trying to destroy your life with his wiswas. If you listen to him, you would […]

Is an oath valid if one swears an oath in their mind without saying it on their lips? Also i suffer from waswas. This is a major problem for me. my mind makes too many oaths beyond my control, my mind swears to do this or that or not to do this or that. I have no control over this. Do i owe expiation’s for those oaths? I am a little embarrassed to ask this .

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

This is not valid unless one says it verbally.

I have been feeling really depressed, and scared for the last couple of days. And I need guidance on how to overcome this feeling. dont want to leave my house and getting suicidal thoughts. Why am i feeling like this?

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

This is from Satan who is trying to depress you so that he can divert you from the straight path and then have you join his path to relieve your depression. Most of the similar cases either appear when a person is trying to get closer to Allah or when a practicing person falls into […]

A person had a bad thought which could be in disrespect to Allah and the Book of Allah or anything relating to mockery or disrespect to the wives of the Prophet (salla Allahu aleyhi wa sallam) and ends up laughing at that thought…or smiling at that thought but it happens as a sudden reaction to the thought. i.e you try to force back the laughter or smile and dont intend to commit any kufr by it and know its wrong or sometimes your reaction is sudden and you realise after that it was wrong, but again dont mean any kufr or dont intend kufr by it.

Psychological and Social Problems

11 Mar

If this is an OCD and doctors say that this is an illness, there is nothing for you to do as you are sick. No one in his right mind and Islam would dare and do such a thing even if he claims he didn’t intend it.

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