Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: Halal Dating in Islam I like a guy and he is in my university with me. We are not in a physical relationship but plan on marrying once we’re done with our degree which is in 2 years. I haven’t told my parents yet since they will say that this is not the right time and will ask me to cut contact with him while his parents know that he likes someone and is planning on marrying them. What should I do in this situation?

03 Jun

ANSWER: Either you are pleasing Allah or pleasing satan! No doubt that by being in contact with this individual, you are displeasing Allah and tarnishing your parents’ reputation as women from honored families do not engage in such premarital relationships. You will soon fall weak and fall into physical relationships and fornication which is the […]

QUESTION: Father has agreed to daughters marriage to a boy she likes but refuses to do nikkah till he has a fulltime job. In the meantime daughter is talking to ‘fiance’ on WhatsApp but has strictly been stopped from ever meeting him. Mother cant stop girl from talking in message as she doesn’t listen or father from delaying nikkah. If this drags on is there sin on mum.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

03 Jun

ANSWER: The daughter is sinful for such communications and the father must be informed to stop her or threaten her of canceling the marriage altogether if she is not willing to comply!

QUESTION: I know a girl & boy who chats to eachother only via social media frm past few yrs & they never Met. I heard frm that girl, sometimes he uses her for orl sx (filthy words in chats).Both of them asking forgiveness bt again & again they’re falling in the sin of talking wid each other.They know well that they’ll never marry eachother bcoz da boy don’t wnt 2 marry her evn she’s interested. Advice them.

Pre-Marital Relations

29 May

ANSWER:Such a girl is not chaste when she knows he is using her and not interested in marrying her! Usually people call such a girl as a _______! He is playing with her like a dog plays with a bone! If she is happy and satisfied with this and doesn’t care about her reputation and […]

QUESTION: My fiancé studies in a freemixing university and gets angry when I tell her not to freemix and not to upload pictures with boys as audience. I love her very much and want to marry her. Shaykh, I’m very depressed as I don’t want her to freemix. What to do Shaykh ? My heart breaks when boys see her but I love her more than anything except my mother.

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

23 May

ANSWER: You are sinful for communicating with this woman as she is a non mahram to you and she is not yet your wife. You must stop all communications with her. The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam had told us that there are 3 categories of people who won’t enter paradise and he mentioned […]

QUESTION: Are we sinful for having feelings for someone? as long as we are not in any kind of contact and we do not act upon it in any way? It is not possible for me to marry tht person.

Pre-Marital Relations

18 May

ANSWER: Having such feelings is natural. What is not permissible is to commit sin in the process such as looking without lowering the gaze, communicating, socializing or being around such a person. This is totally prohibited.

QUESTION: I had a completely platonic relationship with a girl who was my bestfriend. Because I was focusing more on my deen, I understood that we couldnt be friends and I told her about it. We were totally just friends but I feared that I would be sinful for this as some of our conversations included talking and encouraging haram stuff like haram relationships. Would this be a just reason to leave her?

Pre-Marital Relations

27 Apr

ANSWER: Cut all communications and contact with her immediately and block her from everywhere. There is no such thing as platonic relationship in Islam! It’s totally prohibited to be friends with non mahram opposite gender, PERIOD!

QUESTION: My elder sister is having a boyfriend and i knew about it. I’ve told her to leave him as it is haram but she doesn’t leave him as she want to marry him.i did everything that i could .I’ve told her to get married if u like him but the boy is unemployed .What should i do to make her understand? And if she doesn’t understand am i held accountable for stop taking to her?!

Pre-Marital Relations, Fiqh of the family

15 Mar

ANSWER: If not talking to her would make her stop seeing him, you must stop talking to her.

QUESTION: Sheik, I have a colleague in office and I had developed some feelings for her. Alhamdulilah I have managed to cut off all the interactions with her but I’m unable to forget her. I think about her all day and not able to focus on other stuff and prayers too. Please advice.

Pre-Marital Relations

07 Mar

ANSWER: This is what happens when you don’t obey Allah’s commands to lower your gaze and not to intermingle with non mahrams! Get married if you can, otherwise fast every alternate day and always lower your gaze. Cut all means that lead to such a sin, like cutting off the internet from all devices, stop […]

QUESTION: I liked my cousin but I never told it to anyone, recently he got engaged to someone else and now I cant get rid of thinking about him. I prayed, I do adhkar, I read Quran daily but i dont know why this is happening to me as I cant forget him. Please show me the straight path

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

20 Oct

ANSWER: This is satan messing up with your head to make you fall into sin. Pray for him and his new bride and for their happiness. Ignore these whispers and move on. Occupy yourself with constructive things and halal hobbies during free time, besides learning about your religion and trying to be a better Muslimah.

QUESTION: My sister is in Haram Relationship we did literally Everything to make her understand that this is Haram in Islam …but Sheikh she isn’t listening Due to this Sheikh their is lot of tension in Our family….my mom has gotten into Depression due to this ..

Pre-Marital Relations

07 Oct

ANSWER: If you are living in the west, there isn’t much you can do except to make duaa for her and remind her of Allah and threaten her to boycott her off totally. This the heavy price of living in kafir countries.

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