ANSWER: This is what happens when you don’t obey Allah’s commands to lower your gaze and not to intermingle with non mahrams! Get married if you can, otherwise fast every alternate day and always lower your gaze. Cut all means that lead to such a sin, like cutting off the internet from all devices, stop […]
Read moreANSWER: This is satan messing up with your head to make you fall into sin. Pray for him and his new bride and for their happiness. Ignore these whispers and move on. Occupy yourself with constructive things and halal hobbies during free time, besides learning about your religion and trying to be a better Muslimah.
Read moreANSWER: If you are living in the west, there isn’t much you can do except to make duaa for her and remind her of Allah and threaten her to boycott her off totally. This the heavy price of living in kafir countries.
Read moreANSWER: A guy does not need permission from anyone to get married to a girl. He is free to marry her if her wali agrees. Do not ask about his parents sin as they are not sinful for rejecting you or about his sin for not trying harder! You are sinful for being in a […]
Read moreANSWER: You should stay there and give her dawah once in a while with good manners, knowledge and wisdom. You have no right, none whatsoever to break her face or to lay a hand on her!
Read moreANSWER: Such a person can’t be “practicing” while willing to be engaged to such an individual! This falls under the definition of dayyouth. She is not the last woman on earth!
Read moreANSWER: Mind your own business and focus on learning Islam and talking and mixing only with other muslim men and giving them dawah! Do not involve with Muslim women nor mix with them or communicate with them.
Read moreANSWER: Of course not! Non Muslims don’t enter paradise! You should be worried if you are going to make it to paradise yourself! Part of your repentance is to feel remorse for your sin which is obvious you don’t have!
Read moreANSWER: This was bound to happen, as it is common in such ‘relationships’. What is the extent to which you are willing to let him blackmail you? He will soon have you physically doing his bidding, by such blackmails. You do not need to give any explanations to him whatsoever, simply cut off all communication […]
Read moreANSWER: If you are financially independent and can support a wife, you can marry her with her father’s consent, otherwise break off all communications with her immediately if you want Allah to forgive you. If you are ok with angering Allah and ending up in hell, you can maintain your haram relationship with her and […]
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