Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: Skeikh I (14) had a question I really like this girl (14) and she is happy when she starves herself and I don’t want her to do that but she has body imaging issues I heard a lecture from another mufti (mufti Menk) he said if you partner is happy with something the other one should engage with that person skeikh should I engage with her I want her to eat she lost 4kg I want her to eat

08 Aug

ANSWER: Before asking about her weight and what you want and what you don’t want, you need to become a real Muslim first and ask what Allah wants from you! It is totally prohibited in Islam to talk to girls and befriend them like this and Allah hates this and is angry with you for […]

QUESTION: I’m dealing with emotional battles everyday. I’m trying to quit on haram things but my heart is attached to a non mehram who is not even willing to marry me. But still I’m obsessed over him cus he lied to me that he’ll marry me but later on refused.

Pre-Marital Relations

12 Jul

ANSWER: This is your test from Allah! Those who fail their test, end up with depression in this life and in hell fire on the day of judgement!

QUESTION: Sheikh, I got married recently, I dated some men and I hurt them by leaving them and marrying my present husband, I really feel guilty and I have been asking Allah for forgiveness, I don’t have the guts to ask them for forgiveness as I don’t want to create communication again, please sheikh do you think Allah will forgive me or I have to also ask for their forgiveness personally?

Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance

08 Jul

ANSWER: You MUST NOT tell them anything nor contact them in any way AT ALL! Block them all and delete anything that reminds you of any of them. Simply repent sincerely to Allah while showing deep remorse and be a good and obedient wife to your husband, fulfill all his rights and move on.

QUESTION: “the Messenger of Allah said: “There is nothing like marriage, for two who love one another.” Sunan ibne majah 1847.” Sir we know love before marriege is not allowed,then what kind of love is meant here?

Pre-Marital Relations

01 Jul

ANSWER: This is love that doesn’t involve premarital relationships.

QUESTION: What to do when my ex left me in a bad position where i fall for sins with him where he promise to be with me for marriage; he never fear Allah to do such things in Halal way but when comes to maary step back & set himself as a good man turn to Allah at the same time making connections with me trying to be bad and at the end he marry some other woman! In this case what I suppose to do i se

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Jun

ANSWER: Repent sincerely to Allah while showing deep remorse for this grave sin that you were in and MOVE ON! You must be thankful to Allah for removing you from this haram relationship and saving you from hellfire!

QUESTION: Halal Dating in Islam I like a guy and he is in my university with me. We are not in a physical relationship but plan on marrying once we’re done with our degree which is in 2 years. I haven’t told my parents yet since they will say that this is not the right time and will ask me to cut contact with him while his parents know that he likes someone and is planning on marrying them. What should I do in this situation?

Pre-Marital Relations

03 Jun

ANSWER: Either you are pleasing Allah or pleasing satan! No doubt that by being in contact with this individual, you are displeasing Allah and tarnishing your parents’ reputation as women from honored families do not engage in such premarital relationships. You will soon fall weak and fall into physical relationships and fornication which is the […]

QUESTION: Father has agreed to daughters marriage to a boy she likes but refuses to do nikkah till he has a fulltime job. In the meantime daughter is talking to ‘fiance’ on WhatsApp but has strictly been stopped from ever meeting him. Mother cant stop girl from talking in message as she doesn’t listen or father from delaying nikkah. If this drags on is there sin on mum.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

03 Jun

ANSWER: The daughter is sinful for such communications and the father must be informed to stop her or threaten her of canceling the marriage altogether if she is not willing to comply!

QUESTION: I know a girl & boy who chats to eachother only via social media frm past few yrs & they never Met. I heard frm that girl, sometimes he uses her for orl sx (filthy words in chats).Both of them asking forgiveness bt again & again they’re falling in the sin of talking wid each other.They know well that they’ll never marry eachother bcoz da boy don’t wnt 2 marry her evn she’s interested. Advice them.

Pre-Marital Relations

29 May

ANSWER:Such a girl is not chaste when she knows he is using her and not interested in marrying her! Usually people call such a girl as a _______! He is playing with her like a dog plays with a bone! If she is happy and satisfied with this and doesn’t care about her reputation and […]

QUESTION: My fiancé studies in a freemixing university and gets angry when I tell her not to freemix and not to upload pictures with boys as audience. I love her very much and want to marry her. Shaykh, I’m very depressed as I don’t want her to freemix. What to do Shaykh ? My heart breaks when boys see her but I love her more than anything except my mother.

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

23 May

ANSWER: You are sinful for communicating with this woman as she is a non mahram to you and she is not yet your wife. You must stop all communications with her. The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam had told us that there are 3 categories of people who won’t enter paradise and he mentioned […]

QUESTION: Are we sinful for having feelings for someone? as long as we are not in any kind of contact and we do not act upon it in any way? It is not possible for me to marry tht person.

Pre-Marital Relations

18 May

ANSWER: Having such feelings is natural. What is not permissible is to commit sin in the process such as looking without lowering the gaze, communicating, socializing or being around such a person. This is totally prohibited.

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