ANSWER: If the boy is financially independent, as a man, he must propose to the Girl’s father for her and if he agrees, he can get married to her. He does not need anyone’s permission to get married except the girl’s guardian. If you are serious about marriage, approach her father for her hand in […]
Read moreANSWER: This is not permissible at all! Your mother is your gate to Paradise and Allah mandates that you honor, respect, and be dutiful towards her despite how she behaved with you while anticipating your reward from Allah alone. Talking to one’s mother by exploding on her with anger surely reserves one’s spot in Hell. […]
Read moreANSWER: If praying at night won’t affect your duty in the morning in your job or school or in serving them, you are not obliged to obey them!
Read moreANSWER: You are not obligated to help him and it is not even permissible to help him pay off his interest based loans.
Read moreANSWER: Your father is sinful for making bad duas against you and such duas will have no impact on you as long as you serve, honor, and are dutiful towards him while anticipating your reward from Allah alone.
Read moreANSWER: This is not permissible. They are accountable for their behaviour with each other. You are accountable for your behaviour and you are obliged to be courteous and polite to your father regardless of his sins.
Read moreANSWER: If she is delaying in getting you married, speak to a sibling or an aunt to help persuade your father to do so.
Read moreANSWER: He has no right neither in his sons income nor his daughters! If he is needy, they are obliged to give him without harming themselves.
Read moreANSWER: You should obey him in what is rational as he is your elder and has your best interest at heart however, he does not have any authority over you as that only belongs to your father.
Read moreANSWER: There is nothing you can do but to advise them with good manners, wisdom, knowledge, and diplomacy. Leave them alone and focus on your own!
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