ANSWER:
This is not permissible at all!
Your mother is your gate to Paradise and Allah mandates that you honor, respect, and be dutiful towards her despite how she behaved with you while anticipating your reward from Allah alone.
Talking to one’s mother by exploding on her with anger surely reserves one’s spot in Hell.
She is sinful for her actions and as an adult, accountable in front of Allah. You need to speak to the elders in her family to restrain her and prevent her from such behavior while remaining dutiful and respectful with her.