Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

ANSWER: If he does this, he must be flogged 80 lashes for slandering her like this unless he can provide 4 male witnesses to prove his accusations or get a confession of her in front of an Islamic judge or curse himself after swearing by Allah 4 times that she is an adulteress and 5th […]

If I someone angers me I don’t talk bad about them in front of others.Instead I go someplace where no one else is around,then talk to myself and curse them using swear words distinctively to relieve my anger.Am I still sinful? Is it still considered as backbiting?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

03 Aug

ANSWER: This is not permissible as every word that we utter is being recorded and we will be held accountable for them.

Sheikh, is it correct to not give Salam, shake hands, or interact with the people of innovation?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Innovations

31 Jul

ANSWER: Is it permissible to interact and shake hands with disbelievers, idol worshippers and people of the book? Are they worse or people of innovation?

When someone talks bad about me in front of anyone and the person listening to him comes to me and tells me he said such and such thing about me? How do I respond to that? Do I confront him or just pray?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Other

28 Jul

ANSWER: Ignore it as you never know, maybe this person is lying and trying to break your friendship with that person.

I wanted to ask about if someone bought something from someone and promised to give him the money back later, but then he couldn’t find the person at all. Is it permissible if he gives the same amount of money in Charity?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

27 Jul

ANSWER: If he’s not able to find that person at all then he must give that amount to poor and needy Muslims. If the person appears later on, he must inform him of what he had done and if he still wants his money, you must give it to him and that charity would be […]

Is sunnah to eat with 3 fingers?

Biography of the Prophet salla Allahu alahi wa sallam, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

24 Jul

ANSWER: Prophet salla Allahu Alaihi wa sallam used to eat with 3 fingers. However, scholars say that this is not a sunnah of worship but rather a sunnah of culture.

I’ve read that in islam there is no restriction of age for intercourse,puberty is enough, but where i live there’s this idea of people over 18 shouldn’t be with those under 18,and i’ve grown up with this,so now i’m struggling,for example if i see a female under 18 i may feel bad(because of people around)and stop looking at her even though she’s lawful to marry, is this Kufr?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

23 Jul

ANSWER: This is not kufr! It’s sinful to look at non mahram women like this whether below or above 18 years of age as Allah has ordered you to lower your gaze!

Sheikh when i do wudu and rub my fingers through the beard, non muslims around me stare at me and i get uncomfortable because of that. So if i do it in a way that they don’t stare at me, is it shirk?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Psychological and Social Problems

23 Jul

ANSWER: This is not shirk however, it may be a weakness of Islam. Be proud of your Islam and make wudu normally! Who cares who is watching or what they say? When they walk nude, do they care of what you think of them?

More..