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Allah has chosen him to be among His righteous servants, which is the greatest blessing he might have in this life.

Allah has created him to worship Him, and to make his goal to please Allah and enter paradise, focusing on the difficulties will make him weak and will stop him from continuing his way to Allah.

Let him remember the great reward and to be patient and steadfast. This phase will pass and soon he will remember it as history.

QUESTION: Young salafi adult male feels lonely and like a stranger among his relatives and parents. They are barelwis and engage in sin. They don’t know about his ‘conversion’. He wants to ask Allah 4 death but doesn’t becoz its haram. His tests are hard and is patient. He feels weak and wants your advice.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners | December 19, 2022 7:38 pm
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QUESTION: Whenever there is family meet up, there is free mixing and I stay alone in my room because I abide by the hijab but neither my mother nor any other person bother to think that I’m alone in my room. I can’t stop thinking that closed And loved ones does not even want me to be surrounded by them by not free mixing, How to cope with this feeling
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QUESTION: How to ensure firm faith in dua. As in sometimes when I make dua I get a thought or somewhere in my heart I feel as if I’m not worthy to be asking this much. Or why would Allah think I deserve all of this. It makes me think that my dua is weak because of such thoughts. I want to make dua with surity that Allah will grant my prayers. How do I make sure my heart is firm & avoid these thoughts?