Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

QUESTION: Young salafi adult male feels lonely and like a stranger among his relatives and parents. They are barelwis and engage in sin. They don’t know about his ‘conversion’. He wants to ask Allah 4 death but doesn’t becoz its haram. His tests are hard and is patient. He feels weak and wants your advice.

19 Dec

ANSWER: Allah has chosen him to be among His righteous servants, which is the greatest blessing he might have in this life. Allah has created him to worship Him, and to make his goal to please Allah and enter paradise, focusing on the difficulties will make him weak and will stop him from continuing his […]

QUESTION: Whenever there is family meet up, there is free mixing and I stay alone in my room because I abide by the hijab but neither my mother nor any other person bother to think that I’m alone in my room. I can’t stop thinking that closed And loved ones does not even want me to be surrounded by them by not free mixing, How to cope with this feeling

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

13 Dec

ANSWER: If you leave something for the sake of Allah then Allah will replace it with something better. Just have patience and keep being obedient to Allah while anticipating the reward only from Him.

QUESTION: Hello, i like to read books in the toilet, so is there any problem in reading the english quran in toilet

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

11 Dec

ANSWER: It is not permissible to take books with you to the toilet as one shouldn’t be reading there or enjoying his time and one should just do his thing and leave. This is where devils reside.

QUESTION: My question is about the ruling on saying lanat to a (things) like if i try to hang a towel somewhere but it fall and i say lanat ullah alaik What is the ruling on it.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

08 Dec

ANSWER: It is prohibited to curse and those who curse will not be among those who intercede on the day of judgment.

QUESTION: Is it ok if we dont say inshaAllah to non muslims for future events. Like sometimes int eh whatsapp group we have to tell that we will not be coming tomorrow. I fear saying InshaAllah because they will probably think why am I including religion over everywhere. Even for my prefect application, I dont think I said clearly, “I will” to anything.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Religions

07 Dec

ANSWER: One should be proud of his religion and say it for the sake of Allah and not for them. There is no sin in not saying it though.

QUESTION: Islam initiated as something strange, and it would revert to it’s (Old position) of being strange. So good tidings for the stranger, is this Hadith authentic.

Commentary on Hadeeth, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

06 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, it’s authentic.

QUESTION: Sheikh, ive seen some hadith where prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said not to praise anyone infront of them. So on which situation we should do it? Like if my spouse cooks for me or my mom i should praise their cooking and we should praise kids for the good they do.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

06 Dec

ANSWER: No problem in praising your wife’s cooking or praising your children for the good they do. The praising that is not permissible is the one related to religion and piety.

QUESTION: Sheikh. i used to have friends before and i left them permanently because they used to hurt me. so now am i sinful to not talking to them from so long ? because i have heard that it is not permissible to a Muslim to stop talking to another Muslim more than three days ?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

04 Dec

ANSWER: No problem in not talking to them. The problem is if you were to see them or meet them and you turn your face as if you had not see them and not give them salam or return their salam.

QUESTION: Is it allowed to call my friends or siblings ” stupid ” , ” foolish “, “mad” just for fun? I don’t refer others using these words. I only use it for my close friends & my sibling. We don’t get hurt & its just for fun. Is it ok?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Dec

ANSWER: No, this is not OK as muslims must not use profanity.

QUESTION: Do shaking of legs have any connotations with Islamic belief?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

29 Nov

ANSWER: No. However, this looks irritating to others and in some cultures its disrespectful towards elders but has no restrictions in islam as such.

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