Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

ANSWER: If she is labeled as poor or needy Muslim and she is in need of such a helper and can’t afford one, you may tell her that you have zakat money whether she would like it in cash or you would pay for such a helper. As a recipient of zakat money, she is […]

QUESTION: An uncle of mine who lives next door to us, falsely accused and slandered my mother and sister. all this happened when I was in another city. I know you must reply whenever someone says salam to you. but can I completely ignore him, as me replying to him may show that I support his claims too. how should a slanderer be treated?

07 Aug

ANSWER: You must reply to the salam and confront him about what he had said about your mother.

QUESTION: Close relative owes interest based debt to few and asked us to lend some money. We are able to help only to a certain extent but they ask often. Are we obliged to help even if they are irresponsible and don’t work the way out of their situation and instead continue to fall under more debt?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Loans

17 Jun

ANSWER: If you lend them and they pay you back, this is permissible But if you lend them and they don’t pay back, you would be stupid to lend them again

QUESTION: If my father real brother fought with words and his brother says him very bad and his wife also like you are wife slave many more . In the hadith tells that if brother does not forgive his brother in 3 days and dies he go to hell ,can you tell me that my father is sinful

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

22 Feb

ANSWER: There is no such thing to my knowledge that when a person dies that he would go to hell for that No doubt that fighting with one’s own brother and saying such nasty words is sinful but dying while in such a state is a major sin but not something that would put a […]

QUESTION: My husband’s mother has decided by her personal reasoning that his wife shall be banned from her house and from any other gathering from my husband’s side because of the family because she shall be there. Whats the ruling on this ? Should I let his family isolate me. My husband leaves me home alone and takes the kids for all events and even eid and iftar dinners.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

27 Dec

ANSWER: What choice do you have if you’re not invited there? People who don’t want to see you, you are better off not wanting to see them either! Focus on your hobbies and readings and house chores and show them that you are happy with it. Your husband & your children must visit the family […]

QUESTION: Shaikh, severe ties of kinship is same like shirk or kufr means that we will never enter jannah?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of the family

16 Dec

ANSWER: No, it is neither shirk nor kufr but it’s a major sin that would put the one doing it in hell for few years until Allah wills the he gets out.

QUESTION: My elder brother nor my younger sister, talks to me, what should i do i also dont try to talk to them but i feel like we should talk, we all talk yo the youngest sister hut not to each other, even when we have work to do we communicate to our young sister. Parents trying there best but no progression happening

Character and Morals, Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: You are all in great danger as the Prophet salla Allahu Alaihi wa sallam warned that those who sever ties of kinship will not be admitted to paradise. Failing to communicate with one another and having hearts filled with arrogance and resentment surely fits the description of “severing ties of kinship” like a glove.

QUESTION: Do I still need to be good to my sibling if they have robbed me and my other siblings of their inheritance

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of the family, Inheritance

22 Nov

ANSWER: Allah obliged us to maintain ties of kinship for His sake while acknowledging that their treachery and theft will not go without punishment on the day of judgment Therefore, do your duty and anticipate Allah’s vengeance

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