Character and Morals

Shaykh what to do when your in a kafir country and you work in a partially mixed environment where there is some mixing and the females sometimes try talking to you asking questions like “what time do you finish” or “how are you” and you feel as if you will be disrespectful if you just ignore completely, also what about muslim women, what to do?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

24 Dec

ANSWER: You must minimize your communication to them to the bare minimum and be as straight as possible with few words without reciprocating with them even if they accuse you of being rude. Lower your gaze and show them lack on interest and do not socialize with them. They will get the message loud and […]

If someone asks me not to say particular thing to anyone, if I don’t say to her that I promise i won’t say it anyone, will it still be considered as promise? Will I be sinful for disclosing it?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be sinful for telling it to others as it’s an amanah with you when she said don’t reveal it to anyone.

My father mcked and I really got hurt and I didn’t speak anything but with my foot kicked heating device a little because the mock was related to it. I didn’t speak anythng but did evrythng my fther said in those 15 mins I styd there and then rushed to my room without uttring anythng and replying to my father’s question “What happened”. Is this disrespecting parents and how to deal with it?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of the family

15 Dec

ANSWER: Of course this is disrespectful and one of the major sins in Islam that would take you straight to hell! Allah will not forgive you until your father forgives you, so seek his forgiveness and never ever do that and never show your displeasure at your parents again, either by words, actions or even […]

My question is about The Hadith of the food of Walima in which the rich is invited and poor are not invited. What do we mean by poor, poor relatives or poor people in general.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: Both! Ones who people are not usually proud to invite and feel ashamed or embarrassed when they come.

It’s very common in desi community to reject a girl or boy based on their color and mock them. Also parents and relatives criticize a child’s dark skin tone and comparing it to a buffalo’s or a crow’s. Is this sinful and is there any punishment for this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: This is definitely sinful as this is racist! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that there is no superiority of a white person over a black and vice versa except through piety.

Years ago i took loan from a man now I dont know where he is etc. Should I give charity in his name of same amount as loan?

Character and Morals, Loans

13 Dec

ANSWER: If there is no way you can locate him or any of his relatives or legal heirs then yes, you must give that amount in charity to poor and needy muslims on his behalf.

My question is about talking in sarcastic way I and my friends talk more of it though it’s joke. What’s the ruling?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Dec

ANSWER: This depends on the situation and the intention as well. Generally speaking, this is one of the ways satan throws enmity and hatred in Muslims hearts.

It is said that we should have a high voice and no need to act to be polite when dealing with non mahram but our Prophet saw said that we should be nice to everyone even to our enemies too. Then how should we deal with opposite gender?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Women clothing

18 Nov

ANSWER: Allah said in the Quran be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honourable manner.

Sir Allah says he wnt forgive if we have hurted or wronged others unless that person forgive, so if that person died, or away frm us or not willing to forgive then? And islam erases all sins, a convert also wrongs other and enters islam, his sins are wiped then why not a muslims if he repents to Allah coz lord has said he forgive all in zumar. I loose hope when i read that Allah will not forgive.

Backbiting, Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

17 Nov

ANSWER: If you sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse, Allah will forgive you in sha Allah.

Sir its nowadays a trend in our country Bangladesh ,that many guys doing their long term affair marriage!my few relative also doing this marriage and engesement. Prob is few of my relative talk to me in such way that i hove done so wrong that i hv not done affair! As if its my inability that i couldn’t.. How to response them? I feel so humiliate!!

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Nov

ANSWER: Why would you feel humiliated for abiding by Allah’s laws? This shows your lack of Iman. You must be proud of your religion and follow it to the core and be an inspiration for others. It is your duty to tell them that such relationships go against the Quran and Sunnah and it angers […]

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