Character and Morals

My mother and little sister watch alot of Television soaps which are stupid in nature I believe its certainly effecting my sister’s upbringing as all channels are UnIslamic they are influencing her thinking. So can I cut the cable without letting them know because they would feel bad if I tell them.

13 Feb

If you cut the cable, they will have someone fix it and they will know that someone has physically cut it and that can only be you. If there is no way for them to know and they can’t restore the service back, you can do such a thing. Better more, you should make […]

I have many friends, Muslim friends, that indulge in things, for example, drugs, stealing, alcohol and even zinnah. i want to help them but if i continously keep talking about what they theyre doing is wrong..

Character and Morals

13 Feb

i want to help them but if i continously keep talking about what they theyre doing is wrong, they feel kind of insecure and uncomfortable around me. Also, some act like they don’t do anything wrong in my presences but when i am gone they still do it. So, my question basically is: Should I […]

If you play a sport and you are so good that noone on the sport is on that same level as you r u aloud to say I AM THE BEST IN THAT SPORT!!

Character and Morals

13 Feb

Yes

Is it permissible for me to tell a sister that another sister and her husband are deceiving her to get information about her marital life? And they plan to do so again soon

Character and Morals

13 Feb

If their intention is good and the man has influence over the husband, this is a good action from their side to try and reconcile between the two. But if you are sure that what they are doing would only add fuel to the fire and that they are not helping, you should go to […]

If I leaves a friend due to the fear that;this person is distancing me from Islam and it is obvious that she is not a good company,will Allah question me that instead you could have ben her friend and tried to show her the right path? will I be hold accountable in any way?

Character and Morals

13 Feb

The first thing you will be asked about is the livelihood of your heart. This means that if there is a risk of corrupting your heart by the company of a person, you must leave that person immediately and work on purifying your heart. It is not advisable to be like a candle that […]

I saw my friend using rat trap in his shop and next morning if the rat is traped inside (small cage) then he took it and dip the trap into water till the rat dies or open the tap till the rat dies. Is it ok or I should tell him to stop this?

Character and Morals

13 Feb

Drowning an animal that is harmful is permissible, and Allah knows best.

If I try to Compete others (in educational field), is it correct?

Character and Morals

13 Feb

Competing with honor and without cheating is permissible.

There are rich Muslims, Masha ’Allah who not only spend a lot of money in way of Allah but also perform Haj ahd Umrah many times, observe Nawafil Saum (fast) and do righteous deeds according to Quran and Hadith, Is there any way to Compete them?

Character and Morals

13 Feb

You have to do what is in your ability and Allah will guide all of us in accordance to our ability.

Could you please advice me how to react when some one praises you?

Character and Morals

13 Feb

As long as you know yourself, this shouldn’t add any value to you nor it should hurt you if they don’t praise you. Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal said that the sign of true sincerity is not to be affected by praise or blame from people. Therefore, you should ask them kindly not to say these […]

When my friends come to me for help in religios matters (Alhumdulillah), at times I tell them to do a particular good deed, like praying Tahajjud or reciting a lot of durood and that I do it too. I tell them so that they may be encouraged because if I can do it, then why not they themselves… I do take a lot of care not to fall for riyaa, is what I do correct and how should I take care not to fall into riyaa in this case?

Character and Morals

13 Feb

You shouldn’t do this as this is one of the steps of Satan. You can use example of others such as the companions and the scholars but don’t ever talk about your own good deeds and leave them between Allah and yourself.

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