Character and Morals

Sheikh….suppose i told to my relatives that i will have dinner with them….but my friends pressurized me to have dinner with them and i had dinner with my friends…. but if i informed the relatives that i am have having dinner with my friends…did i lie in the first place to my relatives because i couldnt keep my word.

01 Sep

ANSWER: You have broken your promise to them and this is not from the characteristics of the believers.

Is there a Du’a that someone will read to avoid having Riyaa Doubt. Sometimes I feel whatever I did and I’m doing is because of Riyaa. And sometimes if I speak about a good thing I did I feel the guilt of being Riyaa too. What shall I do to overcome this weakness.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

26 May

ANSWER: You must keep on fighting it and acknowledging that no human can reward you or benefit you and that only Allah’s pleasure that counts.

Sheikh I don’t know why I end up hating people for no reason or when they just do a slight mistake I always end up portraying them as fake and betrayers, Or is it because of expecting so much from people and when they don’t come out as expected it automatically leads to hatred and I end up hating…. how can I avoid doing so?

Character and Morals

18 Mar

ANSWER: Your heart is filled with arrogance and thinking highly of your own self on the account of others! This is very dangerous and fatal. You need to know your true reality and that you are full of shortcomings and faults that Allah has concealed from people but you among all others know they exist!

If somebody messages me and says he admires me and wants to know me betterCan i answerhis questions (questions I want to answer) by keeping the conversation in a respected way,in a limit? He is messaging me anonymously. Maybe it’s a person I know But I don’t want to know who it is.Or should I tell him to find some other way to know me? What if he’s shy and some questions I can answer better than o

Character and Morals

08 Feb

ANSWER: You should block him! Only cheap women would respond to such messages, let alone being anonymous!

Ya sheikh, are we obliged to forbidding evil immediately at the spot/time/place that evil happens? For example, if my husband has just come back home and very tired but he said something clearly haraam, am I obliged to advise him at that time or am I allowed to choose any time I think it’s appropriate?

Character and Morals

23 Dec

ANSWER: You must be wise while advising people and look at the appropriate time and place as you don’t want to create a bigger evil.

Assalumaleykum my favourite sheikh. I hope you are doing good❤. My ques. Is that im in college and my friends ussually call me for playing, dancing, partying ect. Actually i have privacy concerns because i have doubt that they might drink or smoke or take drugs.thats y i prefer to be in my room only and studying and praying. Is it necessary to go out with them ? Fardh or sunnah ?

Character and Morals

22 Dec

ANSWER: Going dancing and partying is totally prohibited and such friends who invite you to such activities are evil and deviant. Avoid them like you avoid the plague and only hang out with righteous practicing friends who get you closer to Allah.

Im a girl in a muslim uni and its mixed. Often i see my friends interacting with guys and hanging out and also having soo much fun.honestly i feel very lame because i only keep a few female friends. I always debate whether i should open up my personality and interact with them and also change my clothing style to fit in. Would i be sinful or do u have any advice to deal with uni life?

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

19 Oct

ANSWER: When scholars say that studying in a mixed school is prohibited, it is for this reason as such environment of free mixing and socializing weakens a person’s Iman and hardens their hearts. You have a choice between following the footsteps of the prophet salla allahu alalihi wa sallam and his companions when they stood […]

We feed birds by putting food on our window side. Many birds come and their feathers n may be their shit fell down on ground. Living in a building, the haris of the building few times told my husband and son that by feeding birds it makes mess n he has to clean it. As it’s his duty cleaning. But are we sinful for troubling him. Don’t want to stop feedin

Character and Morals

22 Sep

ANSWER: You can either clean it yourself or place the bird food further away from the building so he doesn’t have to clean it. You can’t harm other people just to feed the birds who will find food elsewhere.

I have a new revert friend . What she is doing these days is putting up photos on instagram revealing her cleavage and hair without hijab and using hashtags like #alhamdulillah. A friend tried to explain her but she is different when she talks to us muslims and different on her social media, and she still persists on it . What should we do now ?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

04 Sep

ANSWER: You must advise her with good manners, knowledge, wisdom, and diplomacy. The best type of advice is the one that is given indirectly so you can post articles about hijab on social media so that she would see it. As the end of the day, she is a grownup person and accountable for her […]

I have a debt around $490, but the person that I owe this money to is not reachable! I just have his email address, but he is not opening it. I am not sure if he uses it or not. I am very scared, I have heard debt is the worst thing and it prevents heaven for giving you access until debt is paid! I’m so scared, how will I pay the debt? Will the charity money be compensation?

Character and Morals

14 Jun

ANSWER: Exhaust all means to reach him. Try contacting his friends or family or his acquaintances if possible. When you have exhausted all means and he is still not reachable, in this case you can give that amount in charity to poor and needy Muslims on his behalf.

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