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I know non-mahram men & women being in contact before marriage is haram. But would in be haram to interact online if a third party was part of the messages at all times (say, another brother or sister) making sure nothing haram happened? Or would this be khalwa too?

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Sep

This is not recommended as it may lead to something else. The boy must go and see the girl face to face, talk to her wali and arrange with them everything.

My husband behave is not as much as good with me like our sahaba and nabiz s.a.w treat their wifes love care .. he was involve with girls after nikah now i feel he only want my body not soul. If i refuse to intimate he completly cut off with me i take care of him so much but sometime i feel bad and dont share bed with him . He even not understand my feelings

Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Sep

Men have desires and wives must fulfill their needs, one important reason to get married is this desire, but sometimes men do not know how to express their feelings, you can talk to him politely and with love how you want him to treat you, be patient and in sha Allah he will be changed […]

My sisters don’t communicate with me or with each other properly, I have to ALWAYS contact them first. My mother doesn’t follow Islam and starts hateful speech when I nicely refuse to do something unislamic. I feel hatred towards them coz it’s always a BURDEN to handle them but I force myself to talk 2 them for Allah’s sake alone. Am I bad for this hatred and anger towards them bt I do it 4 Allah?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

15 Sep

As long as you don’t show or express this anger and hatred, you are not at sin! However, a Muslim excels to the highest level possible in order to be with the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi sa sallam in paradise. Therefore, be always the first to call them and to reach out and never allow […]

I want to perform my Salah with gud tajweed but I stress on letters thinking I didn’t pronounce them well and might be if I leave the correct pronunciation on purpose Allah won’t accept my Salah. Shaikh is this true if u mispronounced something like “kaaf or ayn or ha” I mean u read them as small kaaf and alif and small ha.plz help

Prayer, Reading/Reciting the Quran

15 Sep

You must do your best to pronounce the letters correctly, and in sha Allah your prayers are valid. This can only be done by practicing it with a good teacher.

I dont think my question was clear enough. I am asking if it is ok for me to work in a profession where I am required to hand medical prescriptions over to patients that the doctor has prescribed because there are many medicines which contain haram substances. Am I facilitating something haram?

Medicine and medical treatments

15 Sep

If these medications are haram, you must not facilitate them or assist in prescribing them. The problem is that so many people may consider some medications prohibited due to their ignorance when they are not!

I live in a muslim country but here the customs are even worse than kafir states of the world, especially in educational institutions where co-education is very normal and ambiance is totally against all the rules of islam but only such institutions have a good edu standard, what to do if there are no good edu institutes academically except for co education? Plz shed light on it

Character and Morals

15 Sep

Men are the bread-earners and they are forced to go to such places in order to secure a gold and descent living. Therefore, as long as you fear Allah, lower your gaze, avoid mixing with girls and try your level best to please Allah, you are in the clear in sha Allah.

I asked the same question earlie and you said you wash thoroughly with water and soap. What about the hadith which says you have to wash once with soil and rinse six times with water?

Purity

15 Sep

The hadeeth regarding washing the utensils seven times and soiling it is restricted to what a dog had licked in only.

i borrowed money from my company and still have 10 months to pay it back but I have realized that my job is haram due to free mixing. I want to leave my job but I can’t pay back the loan without a salary, nor will the company allow me. I do my best not to talk to anyone but people talk to me coz it’s normal for them to mix . I’m so depressed now, my sins will just keep increasing anyway.

Jobs

15 Sep

Continue to work until you pay off your debts. Meanwhile, lower your gaze, minimize communication with the opposite gender to the bear minimum and fear Allah all the time.

I am 21 years old. My question is that I am talking to a boy who says he is going to come ask for my hand in a year after he gets enough money. But in the meantime we did zina and had premarital sex. My question is if we stop now which we have will our ma

Pre-Marital Relations

14 Sep

What you did is totally haram and a major sin! you cannot marry this guy unless you “both” repent sincerely, you must cut your relation with him now completely. Most likely he is playing with you and won’t marry you as he got what he wanted. Fear Allah and repent to Him and show sincere […]

When one of our sons, grown up and married, violently mistreat his children in our very presence, we being helpless as when we say or advises, he gets more violent, then out of grief, if we discuss this matter in his absence with family, well wishers; does that come under back biting?

Backbiting

14 Sep

If it is for seeking advice and to find a way for helping him, this is not backbiting.

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