Fiqh of Marriage

Dear Sheikh, how do I explain to my parents that they cannot even see my future Wife until she is considered a mahram to my male family members eg Father and Brother? I was asked by my younger Sister and Mother to bring her home and introduce her to them as they also wanted to see how she looked like. She is a student of knowledge by the way.

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Mar

Your mother and sister can visit her. It is totally prohibited for you to bring her or even to communicate with her before getting married, let alone have your male members see her! Tell them that this is the ruling of Allah, whether they like it or not!

I was reading about major sins & I saw that a man who knows his wife commits adultery & does nothing will be punished by Allah. Does it also apply to women who know their husband is doing such acts but do nothing? Also does it mean they have to divorce either way, as in the case of Li’aan? Because people here say the wife must stay with the husband.

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Mar

If a spouse repented, this is ok. If one of the spouses is still committing adultery, the other spouse should leave and not stay with such an open sinner.

My son wants to do nikaah with a Christian Protestant German lady. She does not do idol worship, but, as of now she does not want to revert to Islam. (May Allah grant her hidayah) My question is that is this nikaah permissible? Can we attend this nikaah?

Fiqh of Marriage

05 Mar

This is permissible, however your son must never stop to call her to islam in a nice and wise way. The marriage must be done according to Islam with the consent of her guardian and the presence of two male Muslims.

Is oral sex haraam or makrooh?(this is for my friend I never want to get married)

Fiqh of Marriage

04 Mar

Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://www.facebook.com/SheikhAssimAlhakeemTeam/posts/639543419559985 You say you never want to get married, this is a sin! Marriage is half of your deen and is the sunnah of our Prophet sallAllahu alaihi wa salaam.

I’m a practicing Muslimah, now its time for my marriage, my parents cant understand me that i want to marry person, who is good practicing muslim as well as educated. as they lack both of these qualities. My teacher tried to help but there was no outcome. I read all those duas mentioned in Quran with understanding. I’m very confused wht to do now, i cant wait long(26 yo)

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Mar

If someone practicing proposes to you and your father rejects him, go to the Muslim court or to the authorized Islamic center and complain about your case and they will give you in marriage to this man if he is suitable.

is it ok to give a joint reception from both sides[girl and boy’s family] if nikah is done on henna function?

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Mar

Such a joint reception is permissible but what is not permissible is to have men and women mixing together, to have music or to imitate the Hindus in their rituals and henna.

Is it permissible to marry a girl (who is a less practising Muslimah) but if she promises, that she will try her best to follow the Rulings of Salat, Siam, Zakat, Hijab etc. after Marriage.. P.S. Now a days, It’s extremly difficult to find a True Practising girl in Bangladesh. What should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage

28 Feb

This is permissible but is it advisable? The answer is ‘no’ as many don’t keep their promise and the man ends up stuck with a woman who is not practicing and a number of children involved!

After a girl had her nikkah, she has a wedding reception and in that she wants some of her friends to be her bridesmaid and maid of honor..Is it haram to be a bridesmaid or maid of honor on someones weddding reception?

Fiqh of Marriage

22 Feb

This is a Christian custom and Muslim don’t have such a thing.

If one has attend the age(say the age is bw 25 26) of marriage ,one he wants to get married but his parents is not willing to get his marriage done as its too early for them . So in this case wat shud one do How he can convince his/her parent peacefully and if he force his parents to get his marriage then he is afraid that his parents might get hurt .

Fiqh of Marriage

01 Feb

If you are a man and financially stable to look after a wife, you can get married even if your parents do not agree with it. Try to speak to them again about it in a nice and diplomatic way. They have no right to prevent you from marrying and you are not obliged to […]

Can people get married over phone? Example: Father tells man who proposed “Yes, you may marry my daughter” and there are two people who are there with the father as he agrees to marry her off.

Fiqh of Marriage

11 Dec

Technically speaking, if all parties including the witnesses know each other beyond doubt and no one can impersonate one of them, this is permissible though I don’t advise of it as I have seen so many similar marriages where the woman has been running after her husband to divorce her and he is refusing that […]

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