The one sacrificing must be one of them. In her case, the money she is giving is a contribution and a gift to her husband. Therefore, it is her husband who is giving the sacrifice and not her. She doesn’t have to refrain from these things.

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Slaughtering the sheep is permissible but it must not be taken from charity or the money of the masjid. It should be a gift from someone.

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If it is a sheep, this is not permissible to have a share in it.If it is a camel or a cow, it is permissible to divide it into seven shares and one share is equivalent to one sheep.

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This is permissible for your parents and you can include the in your own sacrifice.

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As for the distribution, the recommended on is to divide it into 3 parts; one for charity, one as a gift and the other part is to be eaten.

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