Kind Treatment of Spouses

In one of your lectures i heard 3 qualities that muslimah should have: wadud, walud and 3rd one i forgot. Can you please clarify what was the 3rd one. And what they all mean?

09 Aug

Wadood: caring and loving to her husband Walood: giving birth to many children A’awood: the one who always reconciles with her husband and asks for his forgiveness.

Sheikh my wife is a Dr and is stressed about her exams and doesn’t physical get involved with me for months and it is frustrating for me.. I tried to fast but no help and to marry again I can’t as it is not at all accepted in our culture…So what should I do?? Can I masturbate so I will be away from sins as it becomes v v hard at times

Kind Treatment of Spouses

09 Aug

Your wife is in great danger! All of her studies will be sins upon her if it prevents her from giving you your rights whenever you demand it! You can’t masturbate yourself but she can do that for you! She has no excuse and stress doesn’t justify her from being intimate with you as it […]

Can I give charity, a gold chain, my husband gifted me without him knowing?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

01 Aug

You can give it within his knowledge as it is your own property and you may do with it what pleases you! However, if it has some sentimental value, you shouldn’t break his heart by giving it away, even if it is permissible.

If a Muslim husband and adult son do not practice the deen although the wife always reminds them to follow the sunnh and do salah but they don’t. Is she has the responsibility and will be asked about this on the day of judgment?

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Knowledge & Propagation, Manners

11 May

No, there is no accountability on her if she tries her best to help them in following the right path and they don’t listen. It is theirproblem.

It is permissible to treat my Cellulite by going to Massage Therapy, because my husband doesn’t like ,and the only way i can get rid of it is a massage therapy.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

If this is a deformity or an abnormality, it is permissible to treat it as long as this is a medical procedure and not something for fun and enjoyment. You should also be careful not to expose what doesn’t need exposing. And Allah knows best

My sister’s in law husband commits adultery.He and his friends use woman who are housekeepers. She has tried so many ways/went for so many courses for dealing with and to try to help him stop but it doesn’t help. So she decided to ignore the problem

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

I am afraid that this is a problem that is difficult to solve with this man as he is used to such filth. It might be beyond repair. Therefore, it is best for her to avoid him sexually as she may catch something from him, if she insists on staying with him or she has […]

My husband constantly hit me,and called me bad things and in front of the kids.We had his brother whom is a Shaikh try and resolve our problems but he always sided with his brother.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

My husband constantly hit me,and called me bad things and in front of the kids.We had his brother whom is a Shaikh try and resolve our problems but he always sided with his brother. So I started to talk with the only person who sided with me(it was a man) things with him got a […]

I’ve been married for 13 years, but my husband hates me so much.I really love him even though he slept with another woman and goes to night clubs. He is doing everything so that I leave him.I can’t do that I love him and the kids as well

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

How can you love someone who doesn’t love Allah? How can you love someone who is having an affair and cheating on you ? You should try to bring him back to his senses but if he doesn’t comply, you should leave him.

I am a muslim sister going through a very difficult time. I don’t have father. I am living with my mother and younger sister. My husband never took care of me. I have to struggle for my own living. I got married about 10 months ago. After a month or so my husband completely changed or may be I should say we saw his real face. He was too much into nightlife and girls.

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

If you are not doing anything that would scare him or make him run away from you, he is not a good husband and you should leave him while you can with minimal damages. He is not a real man and he is not worthy of taking responsibility.

Is it permissible for my wife to plays with my penis (with her hands or mouth) until I erect while she was in her menses?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

It is permissible for her to play with her hands.

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