Kind Treatment of Spouses

I am a muslim sister going through a very difficult time. I don’t have father. I am living with my mother and younger sister. My husband never took care of me. I have to struggle for my own living. I got married about 10 months ago. After a month or so my husband completely changed or may be I should say we saw his real face. He was too much into nightlife and girls.

17 Feb

If you are not doing anything that would scare him or make him run away from you, he is not a good husband and you should leave him while you can with minimal damages. He is not a real man and he is not worthy of taking responsibility.

Is it permissible for my wife to plays with my penis (with her hands or mouth) until I erect while she was in her menses?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

It is permissible for her to play with her hands.

I have problems in my marriage, my wife always swears at me, she never listens to me, I have 3 children. Shall i divorce her? I have been married for 8 years and not once has she cum up to me smiling, sometimes she uncovers her hair

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

You have to go for marriage counseling with your wife to fix these problems. If she refuses, try to get someone wise from her family to talk some sense into her. If this does not work, separate from her for a month or so. If she does not repent, divorce her

Is oral sex allowed in Islam?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

This is not recommended as it is touching the place of impurity with the mouth or tongue which pronounces the shahada and recites the Quran

I have a friend who is intending on getting married this year however he lives with his brothers and is think of getting a house on mortgage as his family is also pressurizing him. What should he do as he needs to move out and cannot afford to buy a house on cash?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

He should rent.

I got married last year, went for honeymoon and all was fine,just after we got back, 2 months past and he never touched me, than we found out I was pregnant,hubby said no intimacy till I give birth, its now 4 and half months and nothing, do I have any islamic rights ?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

You have rights but I am afraid that this is from Satan to separate you from him. It can also be due to your pregnancy. Try to talk to him without nagging or fighting to see what is putting him off you.

There was a news the Egypt’s Islamic parties are going to debate and implement a law to limit the marriage age to 14 years and to have sex with wife after her death (farewell sex) in their Constitution. Is it islamic or their tradition?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

This not Islamic nor it is from the tradition either.

I want to ask is it permissible to learn sex education over the internet? If not then how are we suppose to know so many things that we have to know?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

17 Feb

Going through the internet for such a topic is forbidden. There are islamic books about this subject which bring evidences from the sunnah also.

Is a man allowed to divorce his wife immediately after she delivers, or in that period of 40 days?

Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Feb

No, he has to wait until she is purified and clean and before having sex with her

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