Fiqh of Marriage

My question is, my cousin sister is marrying a non muslim(budhist) guy with whome she has fallen in love.Is it prohibited for us muslim family members to attend it?Her family have given their consent.He (groom )won’t be converting to Islam.

22 Nov

ANSWER: Their so-called ‘marriage’ is invalid and she will be living with him in zina! It is not permissible to attend. If she believes that her marriage is valid and legal, she is an apostate and out of the fold of Islam. You and your whole family must have nothing to do with her and her […]

Separated woman (my friend) and married man wants to get married. The mother of the woman is against to their plan because shes afraid that one day he’ll just leave her daughter. According to the man, It is ok to marry until 4… according to the woman she has the right to choose a partner because she is separated. Who is right? Whats the right thing to do?

Fiqh of Marriage

21 Nov

ANSWER: A woman can’t get married without the consent of her wali, even if she is divorced or a widow. What counts is her guardian’s consent who is usually her father or elder brother.

My family thinks that as I have a dark complexion (synonymous to being ugly), I’m not likely to get married that easily so the only wise option left for me is to get a job. Only then i would be able to get any decent proposal based on my job status. But I really don’t want to opt for job and would rather stay at home pursuing my desire to study deen. This type of criticism is making me bitter.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

19 Nov

ANSWER: You must not get affected by such remarks as Allah has created everyone beautiful and its the religious commitment that makes a person shine. As for acquiring a job, this doesn’t guarantee anything and if it’s a mixed place then it’s forbidden for women to work there. Have complete faith in Allah and keep […]

I love my parents very much. The problem is that my mother does not like my wife. We have been married for almost 20 years. Unfortunately my mother is abusive towards my wife but . Still we go and have dinner with them every week. I visit myself at least twice a week and call twice a day. I also financially suport my parents. My mother still thinks I am not a dutiful son.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

19 Nov

ANSWER: What you’re doing is good, however it’s not obligatory for your wife to maintain relationship with your parents or siblings. If she’s insulted there then you must not take her along with you. You must always be humble, respectful and dutiful towards your parents no matter what but be fair with your wife as […]

Is it allowed to send a girl pictures for marriage proposals? Actually it has become a trend to get the pic of girl 1st & then the family of guy visits to the girls house.Though I dont know the correct Islamic ruling but I usually have arguments with my parents regarding this. I don’t want to send my picture to any one due to this people refuse to come. Kindly guide.

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Nov

ANSWER: This is not permissible.

Can I do Nikkah with my cszn. she is my milk sister also.Her mother has given me milk on some occassions…..Is he Mahram or Non Mahram for myself….is this Nikkah valid or not?

Fiqh of Marriage, Mahram

15 Nov

ANSWER: If her mother breastfed you more than 5 times when you were under 2 years of age then you’re her mahram and you cannot marry her. But if this is not the case then no problem in marrying her.

Sheikh I told my parents to marriage early, but they denied I also told them about zina, they still didn’t agree

Fiqh of Marriage

13 Nov

ANSWER: If you’re capable of opening a house for your wife and ready to take up the financial responsibility then you should go ahead and get married even if without your parents approval as men don’t need approval or consent from anyone. However it’s best to convince them with diplomacy and respect.

I am 24 years of age and divorced.. Alhumdulliah I want to marry again.I have an issue concerning my father as he is under influence of bad things and his family won’t help me.alhumdulliah have made the decison to marry again as I want and need to protect myself and the guy I want to marry from going further into Zina.. We both have made the decison that we want to marry..

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: What is your question? This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the hereafter and if you want Allah to pardon you, you must immediately stop all communication with him immediately and block him from […]

Kindly advise me what should i do about my husband who plays video games everyday and on weekends all day from morning to night. He is a video games addict who neglects his wife and baby also. When he is back from work he plays until he sleeps and gives us maybe ab hour or 2. Should i resort to khula as there everytime i speak about it he ends up abusing me.

Fiqh of Marriage

11 Nov

ANSWER: This is not a valid reason for asking for divorce! At least he’s giving you an hour or 2, there are husbands who don’t even give that much time to their wives. Be grateful to Allah for the immense blessings He has bestowed on you. Develop a halal hobby, learn about your deen in […]

If a common woman wants to marry with an islamic scholar then is it okay or stupidity?

Fiqh of Marriage

10 Nov

ANSWER: Generally speaking, there is no problem in this. It is not befitting of a Muslima to represent herself or offer heself in marriage. Her male guardian should be the one representing her and asking the man if he is interested in marrying her.

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