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What you’re doing is good, however it’s not obligatory for your wife to maintain relationship with your parents or siblings. If she’s insulted there then you must not take her along with you. 

You must always be humble, respectful and dutiful towards your parents no matter what but be fair with your wife as well and not listen to her being insulted.

I love my parents very much. The problem is that my mother does not like my wife. We have been married for almost 20 years. Unfortunately my mother is abusive towards my wife but . Still we go and have dinner with them every week. I visit myself at least twice a week and call twice a day. I also financially suport my parents. My mother still thinks I am not a dutiful son.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family | November 19, 2018 7:55 am
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Is it allowed to send a girl pictures for marriage proposals? Actually it has become a trend to get the pic of girl 1st & then the family of guy visits to the girls house.Though I dont know the correct Islamic ruling but I usually have arguments with my parents regarding this. I don’t want to send my picture to any one due to this people refuse to come. Kindly guide.
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My family thinks that as I have a dark complexion (synonymous to being ugly), I’m not likely to get married that easily so the only wise option left for me is to get a job. Only then i would be able to get any decent proposal based on my job status. But I really don’t want to opt for job and would rather stay at home pursuing my desire to study deen. This type of criticism is making me bitter.