ANSWER:

There is no harshness in your question! It is only the thing that separates faithful Muslims from people who do not submit their will to Allah and object to His rulings similar to how Satan refused to obey Allah and prostrate to Adam like the rest of the angels and justified it by saying that he is better than him as Adam was created from clay while satan was created from fire! We know what happened to him.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/150604/doubts-about-some-islamic-teachings-from-a-female-muslim-student

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/12840/are-women-equal-with-men-in-reward-and-punishment

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/254478/woman-in-islam-is-for-the-purpose-of-building-a-life-that-is-based-on-obedience-to-allah-and-is-not-to-be-looked-at-merely-as-a-sexual-object

The question is a bit harsh,I know.But i really feel like Allah doesn’t care about women.He only created her to please man.We have marriage issues,we have social pressures, we have a time limit on having kids, etc. How is that fair, Men can marry multiple women, but Allah made woman such that she can’t bear the thought of another woman with her man.and then in hell our number would exceed