QUESTION: My fiancé studies in a freemixing university and gets angry when I tell her not to freemix and not to upload pictures with boys as audience. I love her very much and want to marry her. Shaykh, I’m very depressed as I don’t want her to freemix. What to do Shaykh ? My heart breaks when boys see her but I love her more than anything except my mother.
ANSWER: You are sinful for communicating with this woman as she is a non mahram to you and she is not yet your wife. You must stop all communications with her. The prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam had told us that there are 3 categories of people who won’t enter paradise and he mentioned […]Read more
QUESTION: If the brides family are fixed on creating a group chat between the bride and her brother and her fiancé to get to know him more and get more comfortable with him is this permissible, they have only talked once and online not in person,
ANSWER: This is not permissible. The girl and the potential spouse get to meet only once in the presence of her mahram and its not permissible to keep meeting or chatting after that.Read more
ANSWER: This is not permissible even with parents approval because its Allah Who forbade this!Read more
A family frnd has invited us to her daughter’s engagement party,which is females only.Is it permissible to attend as engagements are nt excatly sunnah..?
ANSWER: No problem as long as it doesn’t have anything haram, like free mixing between non mahrams, music, exchanging rings etc.Read more
I’m engaged , and gonna marry next month, can I greet my fiance ramadhan eid by making a call to him through phone, if my family members or my parents say to do so ?
ANSWER: This is not permissible even if your parents agree as there is no pleasing or obedience to anyone at the cost of disobedience to Allah.Read more
ANSWER: This is not permissible as she’s a non mahram to you.Read more
I had a question about talking to a future potential spouse on the phone, or talking to someone whom you are engaged with on the phone (of course with the presence of both sides of the family), is this permissible?
ANSWER: There is only once that they both can talk with eachother in the presence of the girl’s mahram when the would be groom comes to see her during the first and only meeting.Read more
Sheikh, My family friends asked for my hand and promised to come to Pakistan from USA. In Asian families word means a lot. Everything was decided and we were preparing for shadi. They bought the tickets and confirmed us. We even announced everything in our family. But they said no at the last moment. And said we are not liable for anything. Are they sinful for breaking promise?
ANSWER: There is no obligation to continue in such an engagement as it is not binding. Be grateful that Allah took it away from you and your family. Imagine how it would have been, had he walked out on you after marriage and two or three children!Read more
I have a question regarding marriage, i got engaged half a year ago and i was not a practicing muslim, but now Alhamdulilah i have started practicing seriously, but my question is the girl i have been engaged to is not religious at all, what would u recommend ? cancel engagement or marry her
ANSWER: Of course you should cancel the wedding as you would want a practicing wife with correct aqeedah and a mother who would be a role model for your children who would instill Islamic values in them.Read more
I want to know the ruling on engagement rings. I know exchanging engagement rings is not from our tradition . My mother and some of my family members are planning to go to my fiancé’s home and give the ring as a form of gift from my side . My mother also wants to take some other gifts like dresses, sweets etc . I am not going to be physically present in all this since I stay and w
ANSWER: The concept of giving ring to let everyone know that she’s engaged is not permissible as it’s imitating the disbelievers.Read more