I have a question regarding marriage, i got engaged half a year ago and i was not a practicing muslim, but now Alhamdulilah i have started practicing seriously, but my question is the girl i have been engaged to is not religious at all, what would u recommend ? cancel engagement or marry her | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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I have a question regarding marriage, i got engaged half a year ago and i was not a practicing muslim, but now Alhamdulilah i have started practicing seriously, but my question is the girl i have been engaged to is not religious at all, what would u recommend ? cancel engagement or marry her

14 Sep

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Of course you should cancel the wedding as you would want a practicing wife with correct aqeedah and a mother who would be a role model for your children who would instill Islamic values in them.

I have a question regarding marriage, i got engaged half a year ago and i was not a practicing muslim, but now Alhamdulilah i have started practicing seriously, but my question is the girl i have been engaged to is not religious at all, what would u recommend ? cancel engagement or marry her

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage | September 14, 2021 12:46 pm
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My question is can I refuse a proposal if I dont like the man. There is no apparant problem My parents had likes him but for no reason I am not liking him.i am divorced and my age is also going.my parents are telling me I can’t keep on refusing to get married if I dont like the person and not giving them any valid reason.what should I do.Am I sinning in refusing to get married

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Sheikh, My family friends asked for my hand and promised to come to Pakistan from USA. In Asian families word means a lot. Everything was decided and we were preparing for shadi. They bought the tickets and confirmed us. We even announced everything in our family. But they said no at the last moment. And said we are not liable for anything. Are they sinful for breaking promise?

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