Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

Now a days some people are harmful to me….how can I get rid of those bad people….

09 Jul

ANSWER: If such people are from your kinship, you must contact them so that you don’t sever your kinship but you can do that from a distance so that you don’t give them a chance to hurt you. This can be done for few minutes every month or via phone call. If they are not […]

There are people who says that we can have unnecessary conversations with cousins as they are close relatives. So, they chat with them in family messenger groups and have unnecessary conversations. Even a sheikh in my own family engage in such conversations. So I am really confused. So, I eagerly want to know the truth.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

01 Jul

ANSWER: This is not permissible as islam promotes and mandates segregation between non mahrams.

Am i sinned, if i stay away and even not meet relatives that backbite, slander, ask silly stupid and irrelevant questions that makes me have a headache?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

18 Jun

ANSWER: It’s not permissible to sever ties of kinship, it’s one of the major sins in Islam. You can call them once in a while or text them and give them salam whenever you meet them without socialising or being part of any haram conversations, like backbiting etc.

My family(sometimes) and my close friends make fun of me saying that I did haram things like ages ago. But the taunts haven’t stopped yet. They make fun of me, and even say that I’m no one tell them what is right or wrong. Over the years I have grown close to Allah and I have repented for my sins. And when I feel bad about these taunts they tell me that I need to grow up and stop feeling offended.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

11 Jun

ANSWER: Such people are not worth being around! Whenever they say such things, act offended and leave their gathering and try to keep your distance from them and select better and new friends who share with you your passion about Islam. These people won’t rest until you fall back into sin so that you are […]

My non-mahram cousin comes and stays at our house for days and my parents allow the free mixing but I don’t like it. When I sit to eat she’s their, when I sit with my family she’s their and it is really hard to stay away from them in a separate room because after all it’s my house and I can’t stay confined in my own house. I’ve told my family multiple times that it is right. What to do?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Mahram

31 May

ANSWER: Keep you gaze lowered and do not interact with her at all. Stay in your room as much as possible during her visit. There is nothing else to do unless you can afford it and move out to a hotel!

My fathers family (mother and sisters) tortured my mom alot so much so that It has taken a toll on her health.The fathers sister lives in the house my dad built and wont leave even when we want to sell it.My mom has sacrificed and saved every penny to build it and now our condition is not good because of them.Am I still supposed to maintain my blood relations?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

23 May

ANSWER: Yes! What they are doing has nothing to do with being good to them. You must at least give them a phone call or text message once in a while and say salam whenever you meet. If your father is dead, the house belongs to you and your mother if you have a brother […]

Some people from my parents family always abuses and insult my parents.They often does aspersions on their reputation and false blame (ilzam) on them My parents are very god fearing and righteous people Sheikh so my question id is how I’m supposed to react to them. Can I stop talking to them and boycott at all?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

19 Apr

ANSWER: It is not permissible to boycott them or stop talking to them. You must stand for your parents and defend them and tell these relatives in their faces that what they are saying is not true and only liars say this! When you are passive and don’t defend them, they think that this gives […]

It’s said that it’s a great sin if we our relationship with our blood related relatives. My question is if they do harm to us by their behavior that causes severe turmoil in our life what should we do in that case?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

25 Nov

ANSWER: This is a test from Allah and the ones who harm and create tensions unnecessarily will be held accountable on the day of Judgement. If you are forgiving and polite in keeping up the relations, you will be rewarded in shaa Allah.