Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

What should i do if my relatives are not religious? Should i visit them? How can bring them in my home when they are against segregation?Should i cut ties with them?

23 Feb

You must not do this and, instead, lead by Islamic examples. This might soften their hearts. About segregation of genders: When they visit your home, they must abide by your rules.

You said that I’m sinful if my mother sees that I’m annoyed by her rude and impolite behavior. How am I supposed to look happy and smile when she is being rude and impolite to me?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

07 Dec

You have to pretend!

Can you please tell us in the light of Quran and Sunnah should we still treat those relatives with kindness and love who are very cunning and often put the burden of doing big things on us and run away when their turn comes. Should we stay away from them because of their selfishness or stay in touch and be very kind to them?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

01 Dec

We treat people with kindness and neglect their shortcomings as we are doing it for the sake of Allah! We must raise the bar and not allow them to make us descend to their level.

When ever i say something to my parents about islam they dont hear me . there are photo frames in my house , also a fish statue show piece , i told them its haram allah would ask us to put life in them . So my mom was like i didnt hear about till now , so i told her i can show saheeh hadeets she completly ignored me , am scared if i will be also punished , what should i do ?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

24 Jun

Have patience and find ways to reach their heart with total humbleness and respect.

Asalaam Alaikum Sheikh, My husband cares for his mother who is very aged and an invalid. Sometimes she gets stubborn and doesn’t want to eat so he has to be a bit loud and / or firm with her, for her own good, because if she doesn’t eat well, she can’t sleep well due to hunger. Is he wrong for being firm with her? Jazak Allah Kheir. May Allah grant you Jannat Firdous.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

12 Jun

Wa alaikum salam, As long as this is for her own benefit and good, this is permissible as he is not intending to be disrespectful!

My relatives are shia and whenever they meet they embarrass me that i don’t have money and education while they live in Europe with everything life has to offer. Why does Allah degrade me in-front of people who have changed His religion? Is it okay if i cut off ties with them?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

12 Jun

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, You are honored already with the right path but satan is trying to deceive you. If you feel like this, you may fail the test! Don’t cut them off and try to treat them as a good Muslim and invite them back to Islam and always be proud of being who you […]

What should i do if my relatives are not religious? Should i visit them? How can bring them in my home when they are against segregation?Should i cut ties with them?

You said that I’m sinful if my mother sees that I’m annoyed by her rude and impolite behavior. How am I supposed to look happy and smile when she is being rude and impolite to me?

My relatives are shia and whenever they meet they embarrass me that i don’t have money and education while they live in Europe with everything life has to offer. Why does Allah degrade me in-front of people who have changed His religion? Is it okay if i cut off ties with them?

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