Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

My husbands family do not like me at all because i am a different race they have made fun of me and bullied me countless times.i have tried for years to have patience and be kind to them however the pressure and bullying got so bad i got really sick with my pregnancy. I am pregnant again and could get same sickness from stress what should i do islamically.

14 May

ANSWER: You are not obliged to keep ties with them as they are not from among those Allah has ordered you to uphold ties of kinship with. No problem in keeping a healthy distance from them and giving them salam whenever you see them. People who bully you want to upset you and hear an […]

My husband says that if you want to keep me happy for my sake you have to serve my mother as i say, as it’s Allah’s command to keep husband happy and also he is providing me food house etc. So it’s my turn to repay him.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Mar

ANSWER: It is not your obligation to make his mother happy. If you do that out of your own good will, this is rewardable and a good deed. He can’t expect you to do things that are not obliged upon you just to make him happy! If he is happy if you don’t open your […]

Whenever i have to go anywhere to hospital or to buy anything or in any emergency if my husband is busy he told me to go with my brother in law but i dont want to go with him but my husband forces me to go with him is it permissible to go?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

17 Jan

ANSWER: If you’re going alone with him, this is not permissible at all because he’s a non mahram to you and Prophet salla Allahu Alaihi wa sallam said that the the brother in law is death! You must observe complete hijab in front of him and never chit-chat, hang out or socialize with him, not […]

I started to cover my head in front of male members in my in-laws home . But my brother in law dsn’t care, and enters at sudden, I try to cover it immediately? How can I handle it? If Iam sinful? 2ndly his wife says I should cook for him when she is not at home as she cooks for my husband?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

18 Dec

ANSWER: You are not obliged to cook for your brother in law as this is his wife’s job. Likewise, it is not her job to cook for your husband in your absence as you are responsible for looking after your husband and children. You must ask your husband for a separate accommodation as this is your right […]

Me and my spouse love each other too much. We’ve a son and I’m preg with our second one alhamdullilah but my inlaws are very cruel , they don’t let me and my spouse meet. His Parents don’t let me in nor they let him come to me. They’ve warned him if he meets me they won’t let him in again. His sisters are very jealous of us and use very bad language on me all the time.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

17 Dec

ANSWER: This is your husband’s responsibility to show his real skin and to act like a man. If he allows them to play with him like a mummy’s child, then he only has himself to blame. It is his responsibility to provide for you a separate accommodation and to not obey his parents and sisters […]

Is the husband sinning if his wife does not want to live with someone she does not like even though the person she doesn’t like is a woman? she cries everyday and uncomfortable and wants to go live with her parents. the wife had to live with the in-law’s family there were also non-mahram living with the wife under the same roof. what is the husband’s way of dealing with this?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

30 Nov

ANSWER: Of course he is sinful. It is his responsibility to provide for his wife a separate accommodation where she doesn’t have to meet any of his family members. If he is away, she must go and live with her parents and not stay in a house with non mahram! No man with jealousy would […]

Shaikh, I wanted to know if it’s obligatory on a girl to seek permission from her in-laws and to inform them the reason why she wants to visit her parents place?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

06 Nov

ANSWER: No, she is not obliged to listen to them and neither take any permission from them. Only her husband can ask her and give her permission.

Can we cast spell on impudent mother in law who doesn’t let her son to be happy with his wife and blames his wife for no reason,and want them to get divorced(it’s just a month they got married and she choosed the girl herself)so can we go for magic not to harm her in any way but just to refrain her form saying hurtful, filthy words?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye

01 Oct

ANSWER: This is absolutely prohibited and doing this would take you out of the fold of Islam!! https://islamqa.info/en/answers/12578/witchcraft-and-seeking-help-from-practitioners-of-it

I’m married for 7 yrs and live with my mother in law who is worst with me, always try to ruin my marriage. Me and husband fight bcz of her, he had hit me many times. He made me a servant and my kids obedient by hitting. I still behave well but now I want a separate house he refused, said I will not leave my mother and want me to live close to sis in law whr thr is joimt family system. Wht shd I do

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage

23 Aug

ANSWER: It is your right in islam to ask for a separate accommodation. It is not allowed for him to hit you like this as this is domestic violence and most countries incriminate such an action. Consult your parents and elders and then you can come with a decision. https://www.assimalhakeem.net/my-motherinlaw-is-bing-vry-aggressive-and-vile-towards-me-im-not-allowd-to-sit-with-the-family-eat-with-the-family-n-also-cook-for-my-husband-or-myself-she-says-i-cant-eat-the-food-she-makes-whe/

Sheikh im a married woman and whenever i want to go to my parents house i have to take permission from my in laws. Is this right? My husband does not have any problem in allowing to go to my parents house. He says just ask my parents if they say yes then u can go. My husband is MaShaAllah Alhamdulilah very nice. Sometimes they say no.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

07 Aug

ANSWER: Your in laws have no right in stopping you from going to your parents house or stopping you from anything. You don’t have any duties towards them, none whatsoever. You’re only obliged to obey your husband. If he has no problem, you can go even if your in laws don’t approve of it. You […]

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