Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

Sheikh my colleauge always ask me what to do in work. He is working in our company for more than a year now but still confuse what to do and always been scolded by managers. Sometimes i get fed up and don’t advise him as he is not learning and always rely on other peoples help. Should i continue advising him in everyday manner.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Jobs

13 Jun

ANSWER: Saying good and helping others for the sake of Allah gives an excellent impression of how beautiful Islam is and wins the hearts of people. Do to others what you like to be done unto you.

Some friends wronged me and they admitted that and also asked for forgiveness. I forgave them but I don’t mix with them or willingly talk to them. Am I wrong by doing such?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Other

06 Jun

ANSWER: No. You must however give them salam whenever you happen to meet them somewhere.

Sheikh I want to ask, BismAllah Ar-Rahman Ar-Raheem should only be used when we begin the recitation of the Quran or The introduction for books, letters or other correspondences OR can it be used in other situations like before wudhu or before eating or should we just say BismAllah before wudhu or eating etc?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Other

01 Jun

ANSWER: You should limit it to bismillah for wudhu and eating and drinking etc.

What this Hadith mean where Prophet (ﷺ) said “Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveller”.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

26 May

ANSWER: Prepare for death to come anytime and always do good deeds and leave sins as you are a visitor on earth, soon to leave.

Sheikh I was in a SM group where Both genders are there and we chat with each other regularly but I left that group today but I feel very sad about it and my heart desire to go back there. Give me some advice regarding this

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

23 May

ANSWER: This is satan messing with your mind to make you go back to sinning and would not stop until you commit other bigger sins. These are all waswas from Satan to depress and sadden you. You must ignore these and never contemplate on these thoughts and engage yourself in constructive, halal activities and always […]

Many of my Muslims nowadays support homosexuality. I try to tell them that its haraam and with proof about why its haraam, but all I get from them is mockery. I feel so bad for myself now.I have a feeling of “surveillance” around my friends. Its like I say my opinion and then all of a sudden they make fun of me. I feel like people can control and manipulate me very easily.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

21 May

ANSWER: Guidance is in Allah’s hands, all you can do is give dawah with wisdom, diplomacy, knowledge and good manners. You must not be friends with such people as they’re bad news.

Is it sinful to eat quite a lot of food before fasting (Suhoor)?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fasting

04 May

ANSWER: This is not sinful but definitely not recommended or from the sunnah. In fact Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam prescribed us to leave one third part of the stomach free and not fill it up full even in normal days.

It is said that when a person has a fever, his sins are forgiven۔ It is also said that if a believer is bitten by a thorn, sins are forgiven۔ then what about pain in other parts of body like pain in whole body or headache or what about flu ?? are the sins forgiven in these situations also ?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Sins

17 Jan

ANSWER: Yes.

When someone comes into the room, etc. Is it Haram to stand up for him out of respect?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Jan

ANSWER: This is not prohibited but it is not recommended and it is against the sunnah.

My husband who is naturally short tempered blackmails me on going for a second marriage every time I do some mistake (even very little ones) . It really hurts me and I can’t show same love to him. I pray Allah for patience and continue to love him for sake of Allah. Is this type of behavior permissible for men just because Allah had made it halal to have 4 wives?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Kind Treatment of Spouses

30 Dec

ANSWER: He is sinful for hurting your feelings like this and he is an ignorant imbecile. Abusive people want to depress you or at least to make you say a negative remark or response to what they had said. When you ignore them, not defend yourself and not argue with them, this kills them and […]

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