Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

I forgive every people even if they don’t ask me forgiveness no matter how bad they are or how much I’m hurt. I never went through any pain like what I went through in recent times but I forgived him – can I make dua to Allah to explain & make him realize on the day of judgement about wht he have done, wht were my feelings, wht I went through, etc? Bcz he doesn’t allow me to speak anything abt tht

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

29 Jun

ANSWER: No need. Part of moving on is to totally forget all that had happened as if it didn’t happen. He will know on the day of judgement how he wronged you and realize that.

Sheikh my question is about greeting salam. Sometime i greet salam to a person and he doesn’t reply back and this happened many times with the same person . So what should i do can i stop giving salam . please reply

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

28 Jun

ANSWER: If he is muslim, say salam and move on whether he answered it or not! Don’t make it personal if you are giving salam for the sake of Allah as there is an angel who is better than him, replying to your salam every time.

I was calling my wife for fazr prayer last night and she was in deep sleep. I called her few times she said she will get up after few minutes. I was calling her constantly then she got angry and said if I do this she won’t get up(for prayer). She then got up and prayed. Is her statement Kufr? That she said if you do this I won’t get up

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Kind Treatment of Spouses, Prayer

27 Jun

ANSWER: It is not up to individuals to make takfeer on others as this can only be done by a Muslim judge or ruler. Insisting on getting someone out of the fold of Islam is the methodology of khawarij, the hounds of Hell. You must be more diplomatic and compassionate instead of wanting to get your own wife into […]

A person in his past has backbitten alot of people now he thinks that all of his good deeds will be given to them so he does not do any good deed and is just involved in sins thinken that it’s of no use as he is goin to hell already what should he do?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Repentance, Sins

26 Jun

ANSWER: This is the waswas of shaitan, making one lose faith in the Mercy of Allah! He should remember that Allah is Most Merciful and He Forgives sins. Good deeds wipe out bad deeds, so he needs to step up in his good deeds, instead of being disheartened.

Recently I got a proposal from a boy. He has good character, namazi & has a decent job. My family was very happy with proposal. But we came to know that they are involved in shirk. So had to reject the proposal. My relatives weren’t happy with this decision. Sometime later I developed feelings for him. I have never talked with him. He is engaged now. I shouldn’t feel like this. Please advice me

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

25 Jun

ANSWER: You should be happy you were saved from such a proposal. These are waswas from shaitan to depress and sadden you. Allah is the provider. As long as you had rejected him for the sake of Allah, don’t look back or else you will lose your reward and you would feel depressed for losing […]

If we hurt someone and if they curse behind us..and then later if we ask sorry and to forgive.. to them..then still the curse remains in us? How to protect ourselves from such curse..? Kindly Explain..

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

22 Jun

ANSWER: If you had wronged them and seek their forgiveness and repent to Allah while showing deep remorse, Allah will forgive you and their curses won’t have any impact in sha Allah.

In previous mail u said that i need to give some ex & be more specific.so my scenario is like the mufti said Signs Of An Accepted Ramadan is continuously doing good deed after ramadan.always think that did your good deeds are accept or not.i notice that after ramadan i did not read quran i miss tahajud.but in ramadan i pray all night.That’s mean any-of my good deed are not accepted?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Jun

ANSWER: No. It’s natural to lax a little bit after Ramadan, this doesn’t mean your fasting is not accepted. It’s in Allah’s hands and you must have the best hope in Allah as Allah is how His servant thinks of Him. Continue reading the Quran even if little and increase it slowly instead of abandoning […]

Sir if anyone praise me or praise any of my thing, what should i say so that i cannot get evil eye?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye

14 Jun

ANSWER: You should insist them to say “Allahumma barik” to avoid evil eye.

Sheikh my colleauge always ask me what to do in work. He is working in our company for more than a year now but still confuse what to do and always been scolded by managers. Sometimes i get fed up and don’t advise him as he is not learning and always rely on other peoples help. Should i continue advising him in everyday manner.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Jobs

13 Jun

ANSWER: Saying good and helping others for the sake of Allah gives an excellent impression of how beautiful Islam is and wins the hearts of people. Do to others what you like to be done unto you.

Some friends wronged me and they admitted that and also asked for forgiveness. I forgave them but I don’t mix with them or willingly talk to them. Am I wrong by doing such?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Other

06 Jun

ANSWER: No. You must however give them salam whenever you happen to meet them somewhere.

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