Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

ANSWER: This is satan messing with your mind to make you go back to sinning and would not stop until you commit other bigger sins. These are all waswas from Satan to depress and sadden you. You must ignore these and never contemplate on these thoughts and engage yourself in constructive, halal activities and always […]

Many of my Muslims nowadays support homosexuality. I try to tell them that its haraam and with proof about why its haraam, but all I get from them is mockery. I feel so bad for myself now.I have a feeling of “surveillance” around my friends. Its like I say my opinion and then all of a sudden they make fun of me. I feel like people can control and manipulate me very easily.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

21 May

ANSWER: Guidance is in Allah’s hands, all you can do is give dawah with wisdom, diplomacy, knowledge and good manners. You must not be friends with such people as they’re bad news.

Is it sinful to eat quite a lot of food before fasting (Suhoor)?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fasting

04 May

ANSWER: This is not sinful but definitely not recommended or from the sunnah. In fact Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam prescribed us to leave one third part of the stomach free and not fill it up full even in normal days.

It is said that when a person has a fever, his sins are forgiven۔ It is also said that if a believer is bitten by a thorn, sins are forgiven۔ then what about pain in other parts of body like pain in whole body or headache or what about flu ?? are the sins forgiven in these situations also ?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Sins

17 Jan

ANSWER: Yes.

When someone comes into the room, etc. Is it Haram to stand up for him out of respect?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Jan

ANSWER: This is not prohibited but it is not recommended and it is against the sunnah.

My husband who is naturally short tempered blackmails me on going for a second marriage every time I do some mistake (even very little ones) . It really hurts me and I can’t show same love to him. I pray Allah for patience and continue to love him for sake of Allah. Is this type of behavior permissible for men just because Allah had made it halal to have 4 wives?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Kind Treatment of Spouses

30 Dec

ANSWER: He is sinful for hurting your feelings like this and he is an ignorant imbecile. Abusive people want to depress you or at least to make you say a negative remark or response to what they had said. When you ignore them, not defend yourself and not argue with them, this kills them and […]

Is it permissible or sinful for me to leave a place where they are talking bad or blaming Allah (As those people are elder then me and might feel insulted If I leave but I can hear anything like this as well)

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

27 Dec

ANSWER: You must try to give them dawah about it’s prohibition but if you can’t then try to change the topic and if they still continue, you must immediately leave that place as there’s no obedience or pleasing anyone at the cost of displeasing Allah.

Shaykh what to do when your in a kafir country and you work in a partially mixed environment where there is some mixing and the females sometimes try talking to you asking questions like “what time do you finish” or “how are you” and you feel as if you will be disrespectful if you just ignore completely, also what about muslim women, what to do?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

24 Dec

ANSWER: You must minimize your communication to them to the bare minimum and be as straight as possible with few words without reciprocating with them even if they accuse you of being rude. Lower your gaze and show them lack on interest and do not socialize with them. They will get the message loud and […]

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