Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

Is it permissible or sinful for me to leave a place where they are talking bad or blaming Allah (As those people are elder then me and might feel insulted If I leave but I can hear anything like this as well)

27 Dec

ANSWER: You must try to give them dawah about it’s prohibition but if you can’t then try to change the topic and if they still continue, you must immediately leave that place as there’s no obedience or pleasing anyone at the cost of displeasing Allah.

Shaykh what to do when your in a kafir country and you work in a partially mixed environment where there is some mixing and the females sometimes try talking to you asking questions like “what time do you finish” or “how are you” and you feel as if you will be disrespectful if you just ignore completely, also what about muslim women, what to do?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

24 Dec

ANSWER: You must minimize your communication to them to the bare minimum and be as straight as possible with few words without reciprocating with them even if they accuse you of being rude. Lower your gaze and show them lack on interest and do not socialize with them. They will get the message loud and […]

If someone asks me not to say particular thing to anyone, if I don’t say to her that I promise i won’t say it anyone, will it still be considered as promise? Will I be sinful for disclosing it?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be sinful for telling it to others as it’s an amanah with you when she said don’t reveal it to anyone.

My question is about The Hadith of the food of Walima in which the rich is invited and poor are not invited. What do we mean by poor, poor relatives or poor people in general.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: Both! Ones who people are not usually proud to invite and feel ashamed or embarrassed when they come.

It’s very common in desi community to reject a girl or boy based on their color and mock them. Also parents and relatives criticize a child’s dark skin tone and comparing it to a buffalo’s or a crow’s. Is this sinful and is there any punishment for this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: This is definitely sinful as this is racist! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that there is no superiority of a white person over a black and vice versa except through piety.

Sheikh, while sneezing is it recommended in Islam to cover mouth with hand?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

10 Dec

ANSWER: Yes.

Sheikh there is a sunnah to do wudhu before you sleep,but if a person go to washroom or pass air before sleeping so in that case should one do wudhu everytime till He sleeps or his first wudhu with niyah is enough.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

07 Dec

ANSWER: As long as he made wudhu and then went to bed, it doesn’t matter if he breaks his wudhu after that.

I like keeping my nails. I dont trim them. I take care of them as well. I dont apply nail paint on them. I clean them regularly. I just wanted to know if my prayers are accepted or not if i dont cut them for more than 40 days??

Beautification & Cosmetic Suregry, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

06 Dec

ANSWER: This does not effect the validity of your prayers, however it’s totally prohibited to grow your nails like this. It’s mandatory to cut them off within 40 days and if they grow before that time then you MUST cut them off immediately instead of imitating the disbelievers.

My aunt got sick recently i made dua for her, but is it permissible to tell her that I am making dua for her (so it might give her sabr and comfort her) Can we tell to someone that we are making dua for them?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

04 Dec

ANSWER: No problem. However, this would reduce your rewards.

Whenever I am learning Du’a, I feel connected to it. But after learning it and reciting I’m not feeling that much connected to it because I sometimes recite and pass before noticing. Is this normal? Please advise.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Dec

ANSWER: When people get used to something, the beauty of it fades away because one is accustomed to it. This is why one should alternate between duaa and thikr so that his heart would always be alert and alive.

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