Divorce

QUESTION: I was forced to get married to my uncle’s son. Who wasn’t pray a single prayer,practing shirk, and doesn’t provide for me and child. Cursing during work and promising but doesn’t keep up his words. Can’t I give khula? My parents keep forcing me to get patch up with him. For the sake of the child. But we separated for almost 2years

Divorce, Khula

16 May

ANSWER: You don’t need anyone’s approval or permission to get khula

QUESTION: My wife requested khula 3 months ago, gave a letter to the Qadi, and cut off communication without trying reconciliation. I’ve called the Qadi 7–8 times; they keep saying they’ll call but haven’t. They’ve not contacted me or her family to understand the issue. I live abroad for work but am ready to attend a meeting anytime. Should I accept the khula or wait?

Divorce, Khula

13 May

ANSWER: This is up to you! Someone that doesn’t want to live with you willingly, who would you have any interest to live with them by force? If you won’t give her Khulu, the judge would award it to her forcefully whether you like it or not as it is unislamic to force a woman […]

QUESTION: My husband is involved in adultery and doesnot want to keep me. He is not giving Talaq and insisting me to take khula so he can get Mehr(125grm of gold) back from me. If I don’t take khula, he said he and his family will continue to torture physical and mentally untill he frame me with another man or take my mahr back. What to do?

Divorce, Khula

16 Apr

ANSWER: Don’t take khula & take this matter to an Islamic court and the police and show them his threats so that they can file for marriage annulment

QUESTION: Does the husband need his parents permission or can his parents order him what to do on being back together with his wife after about one and half year of separation with his wife?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

14 Apr

ANSWER: Of course not, unless he is still suckling!

QUESTION: What is the evidence that if you divorce your wife and don’t take her back you second divorce dosnet count

Divorce, Waiting Period of widow or divorcee

10 Mar

ANSWER: The evidence is that Allah ordered men to divorce their wives according to their iddah. Therefor, if a man divorces his wife 100 times without revoking the first divorce or reconciling with her, this all counts as a single divorce.

QUESTION: Me and my husband will get a divorce soon. I had to explain to my family the reasons. And one of the reasons was my husband’s pornography consumption. He is now cursing me for revealing it to them. I had to reveal it as i didn’t have any choices. Is it a sin ? Does his curses could be answered by Allah ?

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

04 Jan

ANSWER: Of course you are sinful! No one forced you to expose such a sin that was between him and Allah. Your family had no right to demand to know!

QUESTION: If couple haven’t meet more than 3months or never had physical relation & they get divorced do the women still need to wait for 2marriage till idat.

Divorce, Khula

22 Dec

ANSWER: As long as they were in a room and closed the door, she must observe the iddah.

QUESTION: I know it is makruh to divorce your wife for no reason. But what should our attitude be towards people who do this, especially those who divorce their wives simply to cause them as much pain and aguish as possible?

Divorce

06 Oct

ANSWER: Initially, one must not poke his nose in other people’s business! You don’t know what goes behind closed doors and who is right and who is wrong. Those who divorce without a valid reason are sinful and will be held accountable for it in front of Allah but the divorce would be valid

QUESTION: What can a wife demand from husband while he is divorcing her. Girl doesn’t want to divorce him. Reason for divorce is he and his family doesn’t find the girl mature enough in just 4 months of marriage. Wedding costed much money on girls side in india. Can we take money for the the stuff with which we furnished the apartment.

Divorce

24 Sep

ANSWER: She has no rights to demand of him except what was given to her as a gift from either family. So, if they gave her furniture, she can take that with her as it is hers.

QUESTION: If parents are against divorce for their daughter because of the society and her being an infertile should she follow their wish ? Husband is very toxic, stingy , doesn’t provide properly, has fit of rage and anger issues. Has no interest on her. Porn addict , chitchat with ladies on phone. Always threat the wife of killing, leaving and giving her a lesson.

Divorce, Khula

21 Aug

ANSWER: A woman doesn’t need her father’s or family’s consent to get divorced. She doesn’t need to obey them.

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