Character and Morals

I am from Bangladesh. My question is, “Is it permissible to join a get together arrangement of college, where many girls will present there”?

03 Sep

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible as free mixing is prohibited in Islam.

I live in Europe. In a job interview for the job I will be alone with a woman in a room. is that allowed for me? if not how should I act in such a situation?

Character and Morals

01 Sep

ANSWER: You must not be alone with women nor should you shake their hand at the time of the interview. Ask to leave the door open during the interview.

I want to share senerio with you.Suppose I have done wrong with a person without her knowing and hide it from her and this make that person’s life bad.After that I have done repentance from my heart so many times to Allah but don’t ask for forgiveness from her.Now is it mandatory to ask for her forgiveness too from her or otherwise Allah does not accept my repentance?

Character and Morals

26 Jul

ANSWER: If the harm you had inflicted on her can be removed or you can restore what was taken from her, this is a must. But if this is not possible and asking for forgiveness from her would only make things worse, you shouldn’t tell her and keep on repenting to Allah and expressing remorse. […]

For someone living in the west, even if they lower gaze but how can they do so in a class where the teacher is either a women or students sitting in sitting in front where someone has to look in order to pay attention to the board or teacher.

Character and Morals, Halal/Haram Matters

26 May

ANSWER: They must do their best and maintain lowering the gaze.

Just wanted to know what is the true principle of enjoining good and fobidding evil. I play cricket but none of the players have beards and some people swear also do other sins. What am i supposed to do here. Can i still socialize with these people..im not the one sinning also I will.try to advise them as much as I can but sometimes cant straight away

Character and Morals

12 Apr

ANSWER: If you don’t enjoin virtue and good, after a while, your heart would die and you would consider their actions as normal! One must keep this alive in his heart and choose the righteous company to revive his heart!

I borrowed a book from a person many years ago , I don’t have any contact of him . what should I do with the book ? Should I donate money to the poor to the amount of the books price ? Or what should be done so that I do not get in trouble/punished/(payup my sawabs to the owner/take janb of the owner) for this on the day of judgement ?

Character and Morals

30 Mar

ANSWER: Estimate its price and give it to poor Muslims.

In my country we find a lot of ladies semi nude. On my way to the mosque if I meet or see such ladies, does that nullify my ablution?

Character and Morals

24 Mar

ANSWER: No, but you must lower your gaze.

How do I reduce the urge to show off and look cool in front of the opposite gender?

Character and Morals

05 Mar

ANSWER: You must not have any connection with the other gender unless it is necessary, lower your gaze and fear Allah.

Im a helping person but mostly i feel people take advantage of me and start asking from me more. I feel i lend them a hand and they try to pull my arms and feet. My friend says that you should keep helping as you will get reward for it. But i feel that islam doesn’t promote being used either and believes in mutual benefit. Please enlighten on to what extent a person should help and when to say no?

Character and Morals

01 Mar

ANSWER: Helping others is one of the greatest deeds , and it is the way to get the help and support from Allah. However, you cannot help people in everything. You can just give them what you are able to give materially and morally without over burdening yourself because this will lead you to stop […]

Youngest sister is in a very horrible situation living a bad lifestyle, to a point now where people come knocking on our door to complain about her and that also puts us in danger, brother and dad can deal with it however they might end up hurting her and end themselves up behind bars and leave behind a family, this situation is out of control and we don’t know what to do?

Character and Morals

19 Feb

ANSWER: If you are in a Muslim country, complain to the Muslim court and have them arrest her and discipline her. If she is in a kafir country, you can’t do anything as this is against their laws and you have no choice but to remind her of Allah and show her how bad this […]

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