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Remember when you told me that I will be rewarded for being a one man ummah, yeah.. about that… Now I fear I will be punished for being one man ummah. I don’t feel much support from my _akhi_. There’s so much fitnah! When I go outside, it’s pretty much impossible to not أخطأ. People at school make me mad. The level of _fasad_ in my school is outrageous! Even when I try hard to not أخطأ, I still fall into it. Whether it’s at المدرسة, or سوبر ماركت. Doesn’t matter. The Islamic duties that are incumbent on me are seriously مؤكدا لي. Being a one man ummah is too tough. There’s so much to focus on. All I want is to have khushoo in salah. I’m happy Allah is testing me but I need khushoo. Shaykh, there’s SO much to do. And I fail at pretty much everything. I’ve been trying to get it straight the last 11 months but I failed -as usual. I don’t doubt Allah’s mercy-0 rather, I doubt my ability to be a decent Muslim. It makes me seriously. أقول فقط هذه الاشياء لك.. الغضب في نفسي.

Psychological and Social Problems

16 Nov

Such negativity is an indication of lack of trust and dependence on Allah! With such thoughts, you will never improve as you don’t need Satan to put you down. You are doing that for him pretty well! Whining and wailing is for women and not for men. Either you continue to be a man and […]

I have been suffering from was was andhypersexuality..though i am taking dr.,s drugs.i had ruqya done on me and i screamed and yelled and felt i want to vomit someting .. i feel sometin talking tru me and it will say they were sent by so so person…pls is there a prayer or dhikr dat i can be reciting now dat am possesed wit jinns or have sihr done on me to ward of d effects of these things

Jinn, Witchcraft, Black Magic and the Evil Eye

15 Nov

You have to continue your ruqya. Keep in mind that part of the ruqyah is to start practice more, the devils run when a person is obeying Allah. Be in the company of good muslims, and fill your time with beneficial things.Keep your morning and evening supplications and stay strong! Don’t convince yourself that you’re […]

This is not mandatory and if one repeat the same verse he shouldn’t prostrate as this will stop him to go on.

Quran

15 Nov

This is not mandatory and if one repeat the same verse he shouldn’t prostrate as this will stop him to go on.

Shaikh, I masturbated and promised Allah that I will not do it again. I broke my promise and did it again and promised him that I will not do it. This went on. Then I fasted 3 days for breaking my promises. But after that, I masturbated again. Then, I asked Allah to forgive me. But this time, I did not promise Allah that I will not do it again. Do I need to fast 3 days again

Sins

15 Nov

No, if you didn’t make an oath. However akhy, remember that Allah is watching you. His angels are around us so..think about this next time!

Sheikh if im not getting trained for jihad does that mean that I am sinning ?

Jihad

15 Nov

A muslim must be strong, however this is not a sin,as long as you intend it.

Suppose a muslim man and an atheist girl decided to marry, and the atheist girl has agreed to convert to Christianity by getting baptised in a Church. That is, she is not willing to become a Muslim, but willing to become Baptised Christian before marriage day. Should the man marry her?

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Nov

It is permissible to marry a Christina woman but this is not recommended to marry such a woman.

Sometimes when I pray I intentionally think about other things, does this make the salah invalid?

Prayer

15 Nov

Depends on what extend. However you will not be rewarded for that prayer except the part you were concentrating in.

Salam, if a married man touches someone else’s wife/ woman (not his wife) or have some kind of fore play with her which leads to the married man ejaculating sperm and the woman also having orgasm without having intercourse, will this also be classified as committing adultery or fornication?

Mahram

15 Nov

No , but it is a major sin.

Sheikh what’s is the ruling of writing “SALAM” when starting a chatting with a Muslim friend? and can I write Salam as Slm, Wallah as Wlh, Alhamdulillah as Alhmdl. With the hope my question is understood.

Knowledge & Propagation

15 Nov

Salam is permissible, you should write the complete word.

It is normal in our country to be with our mother in law once we get married. What exactly a wife should do when the mother in law is not letting his son to take his wife along with him though he s capable of taking or somewhere outing when he comes from his workplace and the son is listening what his mother is asking him to do? And it s been only six months since got married; is it wrong for the wife to expect from the husband to take her somewhere out? Hoping for a possible answer.

Fiqh of the family

15 Nov

She should talk to her husband privately and explain to him that he is not obliged to listen to his mother when she interferes with their lives! He has all the right to take his wife places even if his mother tells him not to as Obeying her is wrong in this case. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWK6kJcMytI

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