Psychological Problems

QUESTION: Sheikh.. I want to ask what should one do when his/her parents always keep comparing them to other children or even compare a girl child with a boy cause this leads to such a toxic heartbreak..?

Fiqh of the family, Psychological Problems

28 Dec

ANSWER: A righteous child is not concerned by such remarks because he is doing what he is doing for the sake of Allah and he anticipates the reward from Him alone. He pardons his parents due to their ignorance and he continues to give them unconditional love even if they are ungrateful. He doesn’t show […]

QUESTION: Sheikh, I get depression once in every year. About how will I be able to pass the exams or which career option to opt for after 12th the depression lasts for a month or two in this duration i won’t be able to sleep and I won’t eat properly my health gets effected by this but whenever this duration comes i become more religious is it a sing that Allah wants me turn back to him??

Psychological Problems

13 Dec

ANSWER: This lack of trust and dependence on Allah and weakness of Iman. One must believe in Allah’s divine decree and that everything was written in the preserved tablet 50,000 years before Allah created the creation. Life is not worth being depressed over and one must look at the positive things in life in order […]

Is it best for someone with emotional/mental issues that just prefers being alone and keeping everything to themselves to not make friends or should they make friends so to curb shaytaans trap as said in the hadith about shaytaan targettibg the one that’s alone?

Psychological and Social Problems, Psychological Problems

12 Aug

ANSWER: This is up to their own preference. People with friends are better than people who are alone and don’t have others to remind them or teach them.

Sheikh I feel so depressed all the time I fight with myself always sometimes i pray ALLAH to get rid through salah but most of the time i cant fight with myself and i fell into depression and dont pray i cant feel how much it’s important to pray i just dont pray that time i start thinking bad things about me and unsatisfied with evrtng i have spcly why i m not steadfastat salah.help me

Prayer, Psychological Problems

15 Jun

ANSWER: As long as you are sane, it’s not permissible to miss a single salah! If you abandon prayers, you are not Muslim anymore! I would highly recommend you to book a counselling session with me if you can afford it. COUNSELLING SESSIONS

I have had a long battle with mental illnesses, and sometimes when I eventually get overwhelmed or when a strong episode is triggered I may act in an irrational way and do haram things influenced by these problems or pervert my niyah. I would never do if I was in a healthy state. If I have no control on how I react to these things and am I sinful for these?

Psychological Problems, Sins

31 May

ANSWER: If you are classified as insane during such times and you don’t know day from night and are completely unaware of what you are doing then you are not accountable and Allah is your judge.

I’ve just completed my graduation.my father watches pornography.I’m.really angry with him.I’m really under deep depression.What can i do ?? Advice me and keep me in your prayer. My father only listen to whom who has money.I want to leave my house forever.I will tear up my certificate and I’ll live by driving rickshaw.

Fiqh of the family, Psychological Problems

30 May

ANSWER: He is your father and he is your gateway to paradise. He is a grownup man and he is answerable to Allah. It is none of your business what he does in his personal life. Focus on your career and on trying to get married. Tearing up your certificate and driving a rickshaw is […]

I get laughed and insulted at my look by family and people around me since I was a kid I got bullied.I lost all of my confidence and I ask myself why my whole family is beautiful and are enjoying their life while I am depressed and shy. I am depressed like this for 4 years and I ask myself when I am finally going to leave this world. I ignore them but it still hurts. What can I do?

Psychological Problems

18 May

ANSWER: Do not pay attention to their words as Allah has created everyone beautiful. Beauty is just skin deep. Make your conduct and manners beautiful and with correct aqeedah and good religious commitment you would be the most beautiful person among them. Everyone has a test in life. Some pass and others fail. Try your […]

Sheikh, I have this habit of gargling after coming out of the washroom. I feel that I have breathed foul smelling air while relieving myself so I should gargle my mouth before saying the name of Allah (SWT). Is it necessary or am I doing wrong. Please advise. Jazak Allah. May Allah reward you because you have really helped me alot.

Psychological Problems

09 May

ANSWER: This is satan messing up with your mind. Such gargling is an innovation. Simply come out like millions of people do everyday and ignore such waswas.

Sheikh, a lot of times I refrain from doing deeds because of fear of people, like I want to make dua in final tashahud and I take long time time people start looking at me and I stop and say Salam. Is it shirk?

Prayer, Psychological Problems

08 May

ANSWER: This is not normal as one must not care what people think of him if he is doing what he is doing for the sake of Allah. This is why some scholars said: “Doing something to show off to people is riya’a. Leaving something mandatory for the fear of people talking is shirk!”

I stammer when I see and talk with unknown people. Even my own family members laugh at me as they see I have such problem. Please advice me any dua and what should I need to do?

Medicine and medical treatments, Psychological Problems

17 Apr

ANSWER: You should make a lot of duaa for your cure, trust Allah and rely on Him. You should also practice for half an hour in front of the mirror everyday and this will improve your stammering with the grace of Allah and cure it. You can make ruqyah over water or zamzam and drink/wash […]

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