Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: My husband says his Only responsibility is to earn. Is that true? He doesn’t help me in any way. Me or kids I’ll not his concern, he goes out and chill with friends but demands me to fulfill whatever he orders. Is that true that I’ve to obey him ANYWAY?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Jun

ANSWER: What he is doing is totally wrong as he is responsible for his children and his wife in other means than financial provision! It is his responsibility to teach them all about Islam and to raise them up to be good individuals in their communities. The wife can also claim that her responsibility is […]

QUESTION: I know that a wife is supposed to obey her husband in Islam. But if a husband doesn’t allow his wife to meet her parents even if they’re in critical condition and may die if they don’t get help, should the wife still obey him? Will she be sinful for still going to her parents to help them? If yes, then plz explain why.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

23 Jun

ANSWER: If there is no one to help them for real, this becomes an obligation upon their daughter and she must do that even if her husband divorces her. She should be diplomatic with him and try to convince him peacefully.

QUESTION: Can a girl who is a practicing Muslim marry a guy who goes to Dargah but he doesn’t mind her being a practicing Muslim?

Fiqh of Marriage, Invalid Marriages

19 Jun

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited as a Muslim woman can’t marry except a Muslim man.

QUESTION: Men nowadays expect their wife to contribute financially. Nd who are eager to pay for their wives, in many cases- they humiliate their wife saying – I feed u, u r lazy, u can’t earn a penny, you sat idly at home doing nothing. Now what should I do as a young girl. How can I do a job when many job makes me compromise the Hijab and requires interaction with non-mahram men?i also cant accpet such wor

Fiqh of Marriage

19 Jun

ANSWER: You need to choose your husband carefully and make it clear to him that you are not willing to work as real men are the sole breadwinners in a Muslim house.

QUESTION: My nieces husband will not allow her to leave the house unless unaccompanied by him She is not allowed to sit in the front of the car with him She is not allowed to go outdoors with her mother or any other female relative She wears a full hijab He has said that even if she wears niqab he will not change his rule She is struggling with this and wants to know if it is permissible

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Jun

ANSWER: I don’t know the full story here but I have seen many similar cases where it ended in divorce as such enslaving of the wife has dire consequences in the future but it would have been too late then. She must get him to have counseling or she is better off without such a […]

QUESTION: Sheik I am pregnant and living with my mother because I am not well but my husband doesn’t support me financially and he says that my parents should take the responsibility of first child birth expenses

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

15 Jun

ANSWER: What he is saying it an absolute lie and not related to Islam. It might be related to Hinduism! You and your child are his sole responsibility and he must provide for both of you. He can stop providing for you if you left his home without his permission.

QUESTION: If a husband is angry and saying some really bad words to his wife (not threatening to divorce her), how should a wife react? Also, this happens every time whenever the husband is angry. How should his wife calm him down?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

14 Jun

ANSWER: By not responding to his insults or defending herself at all and de-escalating things.

QUESTION: Sheikh is a man countable if he is rich and just marries 1 women will he be asked in the day of judgement why he didn’t marry second wife and didn’t help those who were widowers or divorces if he can’t be just to them interms of emotions and can only provide for them??

Fiqh of Marriage

14 Jun

ANSWER: No, he won’t be asked about that.

QUESTION: My wife who is in Pakistan tells me she does not need to obey me in stuff I don’t like , and she says she has her mum and brothers who live with her and till we don’t live together she has to do what they say. But we are newly married and I need to do paper works for her visa. The thing is her mum makes her do staff I don’t agree with. If I live in UK must she not obey me o

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Jun

ANSWER: If she did not move with you yet and you are not providing for her financially, she is not obliged to obey you as she is in her father’s house and her responsibility lies with him.

QUESTION: Shaikh i want to ask if i don’t want to get marry the person who is involved some biddah or sometime shirkiya activities so this is my extremism means i am extremist or i am right at my place because some relatives of mine said i must get marry of that person and after this i will have to insist him to leave those activities… Shaikh i am so worried as i don’t follow any biddah

Fiqh of Marriage

12 Jun

ANSWER: What your relatives are saying is not right. You must not get married to such a person as you are not a Guinea pig!

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